How Not to Negotiate – The House of Void

You want me to do what?!?

So early on in our relationship there were times when Master would ask me to do something or show me how something needs to be done and I took it as a personal afront. I felt as if he was saying to me that I was incapable of making any worthwhile decisions and that IContinue reading “You want me to do what?!?”

BrideZilla…Not allowed

As I mentioned last week Master and I are getting married…yay…really really soon…yay but argh. Master said small ceremony big family reception. Fine with me. I think it would really be special if the ceremony included him, me and the children. Very personal…very special. Planning this however has taken me through some changes. Continue reading “BrideZilla…Not allowed”

Marriage and M/s

So Master and I are getting married yay. But now I am wondering if marriage changes an M/s relationship. Master has been reminding me that this marriage does not change our dynamic. I am his slave first and foremost. The marriage is purely for legal reasons only. I am going to write my observations aboutContinue reading “Marriage and M/s”

A lesson to Remember

This was something I posted on my personal page a while ago. As I remember my journey and take pride in my present I think this is one lesson that I should not forget. ========================================== I hope you never lose your sense of wonder You get your fill to eat But always keep thatContinue reading “A lesson to Remember”

Centered Through Meditation

One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes. I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room. This helps me relax my mind after such a busy day which usually starts at 6:30am. Admittedly itContinue reading “Centered Through Meditation”

Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s

Just some a random thought for tonight. I realize that Master and I do very well managing our relationship with children involved. Even managing to have playtime with the kids in the house. We use quiet techniques. Meaning that I am not allowed to make any noise no matter how much it hurts. For meContinue reading “Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s”