Top 5 Kinks

2 09 2018

I ran across this article in Vice today on the top 5 kinks in the US. It was an interesting read, even if I don’t agree with it’s conclusions. The 5 are:

  1. Group Sex
  2. BDSM
  3. Novelty and Adventure
  4. Taboo Sex
  5. Partner Sharing and Non-Monogamy

So of these “Kinks”, I only count two as being truly kinky. Group Sex is just sex with multiple people at the same time. Nothing inherently kinky in this.

Novelty and Adventure is a very ambitious category. so broad as to make it worthless. Basically anything that isn’t missionary is how I would read that. This is a pretty useless category.

Partner Sharing and Non-Monogamy includes both swinging and polyamory. Only one of these would I categorize a kink (swinging), the other I would say is a relationship style, and not a kink.

BDSM, well that is the first one I would say really is a kink. But it is very broad as well. I would like to see more specific kinks, rather than general broad categories.

Taboo sex seems a little tame by their definition. It is definitely a kink, but they specifically call out exhibitionism, voyeurism, and “fetish-objects”, but the category encompasses many more activities.

Frankly I found the research useless, something with real kink activities would be more useful, and less offensive.

 

MV

 

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LifeHacker: The Nice Person’s Introduction to Rough Sex

25 06 2017

LifeHacker put up a good article on how to get into rough sex. Worth checking out.

Frankly, I don’t think I’ve had any other kind of sex, but then that is just me.

MV





Introducing Cyberdiva 

13 06 2017

I was asked last week by a dear friend if she could contribute to the House of Void blog. I’ll be honest, without knowing what exactly she would write about I said yes. I think you’ll like her, I do. I’ve known her now for over a decade. In her own words she is:

I am cyberdiva. Here are a few things about me. This is a very brief synopsis.

  • have been actively living in the BDSM lifestyle as a sexual slave, for over two decades.
  • professional discrete counselor and active civically
  • published writer in the areas of self-help and erotica
  • Check out my Fetlife profile here – https://fetlife.com/Cyberdiva

Feel free to ask if you want to know more… let’s have some verbal discourse.

 

I hope you enjoy reading her stuff.

MV





Presenting today!

28 01 2017

I’m talking about cybersecurity in Charlotte today. How to protect yourself online. There is still time to attend, but you need to act now. Check out my previous article for info on how to attend.

 

MV





My Thoughts on the Recent Purge on FetLife

17 01 2017

Recently I posted about the new purge of forbidden fetishes and groups on FetLife. I want to make something clear. While I hate that John Baku and BitLove have to toe the line of the credit card processors, but let us be real they do. FetLife is a privatly owned website and has provided a great service to the community. But to stay open, they have to be able to take credit cards. It is unpleasant, but real.

My issue is that I had wished that John had published an announcement about the cleanup. It is true that many of these fetishes were banned years ago, though he tried to be clever and hid them for as long as he could to get around the processors.  I suspect that caused the issue we are dealing with today. So John, if you read this, please take a minute and let us know what is going on.

Thanks if you do, John.

MV





MasterVoid Presents CyberSecurity Basics

16 01 2017

So, later this month I’ll be at CAPEX presenting on how to protect yourself, your devices and your data in the computer ate.  If you’ll be in or near Charlotte on the 28, it would be worth your time. There will also be outstanding presentations on Puppy Play, Vampire Play, and Erotic Flogging. It will be a round robin with each prenter presenting twice for about half an hour.  For more info, check out this post on FetLife.

 

MV








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