Negotiations: Are You Doing It Wrong?

I was reading the other day about a very well known professional submissive who had a bad scene. While she was tied up, on stage, the person she was with refused to stop when she said to stop.  He was wanting her to say, “red”. It is sad to see such a fuck up. IContinue reading “Negotiations: Are You Doing It Wrong?”

Sexual Fetish Researchers Categorize Fetish Popularity

Interesting study I ran across in the Guardian, where researchers downloaded discussions from fetish discussion groups, then spent 3 years analyzing them. Some crazy stuff there, but nothing really unexpected. Feet top the list, with body sizes next. Least favorite body fetish? Body odor. I didn’t know there was a fetish for that even OddestContinue reading “Sexual Fetish Researchers Categorize Fetish Popularity”

Let’s Talk About Sex (and BDSM)

I’m seeing something today that I find interesting. More and more I am seeing new people into the scene looking for sex. Pain and Sex. Control and Sex. Spankings and Sex. Bondage and Sex. Very different from the world I came of age in. When I started out, I was directed to improve myself. LearnContinue reading “Let’s Talk About Sex (and BDSM)”