Power Exchange

12 03 2012

I have heard many times that slaves get their pleasure out of serving their Master.  They want nothing for themselves except to serve their Masters.   LOL

Okay maybe I shouldn’t laugh but I find that funny sometimes.  When taken out of context this seems like the slave is the Madonna in the relationship.  She is such a self sacrificing person.  Always thinking of others.  Such a saint.

Okay enough sarcasm.

I am of the mind that slaves do get something out of being in a Power Exchange relationship.  (My opinion is solely from the standpoint of a slave being in a relationship where she is collared by a Master).

I believe the slave gets satisfaction from more than serving the Master.  I believe the slaves true pleasure and satisfaction comes from the Power exchange in the relationship.  In particular the Master’s control.

Serving, obeying, etc. is a by product of this relationship.

What do you think?





Service Book of Days 11/22/10

22 11 2010

  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  the most moon i have ever seen.  this moon was full bright.  i felt as if i should be howling and dancing embracing the essence of the moon.
  • my thoughts…are happy and sad…happy that my daughter is in town and all of my children are together…feels like old times…sad because Master is not with us…but that will change in time
  • Today’s Quote…I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a Man lying over me, always over me. His will, His pleasure, His desire, His life, His work, His sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot….Ansis Nin I don’t know if it is the effects of the moon but I am really feeling this portion of the poem by Anais In
  • i am thankful for…growth…personal and relationship wise.
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week)  Nothing new this week
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  Nothing new this week as we are still eating all of the leftovers from this past weekend…lol
  • i am wearing…a tan turtle neck and blue jeans
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;) More memories for my children and I.  Thanksgiving is this week and we will be spending it together 🙂
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?) No adventures this week.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  Listening to the President’s book…The Audacity of Hope.   It really is  a very good read.  He is a good orator and his words were pragmatic.
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) My life in freedom
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) No songs today just random melodies
  • One of my favorite things..is to learn more about myself.
  • further plans for this week…No plans this week
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

I wish I could have taken a picture of the beauty of the moon tonight but alas I do not have the skills (or camera) that Master does.

http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_PPfqC9y0VU8/SOYQe_E8SLI/AAAAAAAAAxo/HSSDUNoRftQ/s400/FaeryMoon-Print_580x435.jpg&imgrefurl=http://mystispirtualjourney.blogspot.com/2008_10_01_archive.html&usg=__hrfU8slIYTGMZUWkjavcblgveLw=&h=320&w=400&sz=15&hl=en&start=20&sig2=lBrw_MiTrB0NN7dzK8gFmQ&zoom=1&tbnid=zJcX7ZHT3RCWuM:&tbnh=141&tbnw=204&ei=hC3rTMCMGYPGlQfdq8F0&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dfaery%2Bmoon%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN%26biw%3D1280%26bih%3D685%26tbs%3Disch:10,571&um=1&itbs=1&iact=hc&vpx=361&vpy=298&dur=654&hovh=201&hovw=251&tx=134&ty=108&oei=YS3rTJPFN4GdlgeHxYGKAg&esq=2&page=2&ndsp=18&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:20&biw=1280&bih=685

 

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Service Book of Days 11/8/10

8 11 2010
  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  the weather is cool.  it was sleeting today.  four days before my outdoor wedding and the weather is sleeting.  but i won’t let that bother me because despite it all i am marrying Master 🙂
  • my thoughts…are flitty…lol  pretty sure that that’s not a word but i have such nervous energy that i can’t sit still and neither can my thoughts.  and now what i am thinking about is what will happen after we are married?  argh darn my need to know how the future will turn out.
  • Today’s Quote… The only thing in life you do in order is age…everything else is random… Me
  • i am thankful for…change and being able to accept change.  growth…spiritual, emotional, natural growth.
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) This one is my Master’s slave.  This one will always do as the Master commands.  These are the thoughts that I am ingraining inside of me.
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  my menu for the week is pretty basic…i am planning to cook foodstuffs for the reception/bday parties. 🙂
  • i am wearing…my blue jean shirt and brown pants.
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;) Nothing new at the moment
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?) I am getting married on Friday 🙂  That is a big adventure.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  I think I want to read the Lovely Bones.
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) My life in freedom
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) The clickety clackety of my type writer keys as I finish up my work before I take some days off for vacation.
  • One of my favorite things…is to just hang with my family…nothing planned nothing scripted just taking the time to unwind together.
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

The title of this picture is peaceful, serene, calm….woooosahhh

 

 

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=665586

Used with permission via creative commons license:  http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.5/

As always thank you to hisnamaste who runs a fabulous blog which you can check out here:  http://servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com/

Comments are always welcomed.

 

MV’s esclave





Service book of Days 2/22/10

22 02 2010
  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  is more cold weather.  After the heatwave of this weekend (40 degrees) being back in the 20s and 30s is a reminder of winter’s icey fingers.
  • my thoughts… are many.  Pensive and introspective.
  • Today’s Quote… I like coincidences. They make me wonder about destiny, and whether free will is an illusion or just a matter of perspective. They let me speculate on the idea of some master plan that, from time to time, we’re allowed to see out of the corner of our eye. Chuck Sigars, The World According to Chuck weblog, September 8, 2003
  • i am thankful for…coffee with pumpkin pie spices 🙂 mmmmmm
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) nothing at the moment
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  hmmm something different but not sure what…time to bring out the cookbook again.
  • i am wearing… a black cowl neck sweater, black slacks and black boots and underneath…my hello kitty underwear…hey gotta have some reason to smile during the day…lol
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;)  nothing at the moment.
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  no adventures this week.  I will be hanging around the house with my kids and getting my energy back.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  Listening to my podcasts.  One of my favorite authors, Scott Sigler, does a great horror podcast.  I am reading one of his current novellas called “Kissyman and the Gentleman”. 
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) Words of hope and peace and confidence for my children.  Words of perseverance and the desire to do it now instead of later.
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) No songs today
  • One of my favorite things…is to look up.  Sometimes I forget that there is more above the trees.  When I open my eyes to take it all in the world is really much larger than I think.
  • further plans for this week…keeping it low…no plans for the week.
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)  Photo used with permission via creative commons copyright:

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=250329

Here are the directions these post:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention my blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

Also, feel free to look around the service site as it has many pieces of great information/resources.

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me.





Service Book of Days 1/11/10

11 01 2010

v Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  it is dark tonight.  I got home a little bit late due to work and the gym.  Eventhough it was cold out it was not as brutal cold as it has been.

v my thoughts…are positive.  I am living in my present…not someone elses.

v Today’s Quote… When you relinquish the desire to control your future, you can have more happiness.      Nicole Kidmanin The Scotsman

I know I put this in for last week but I am still meditating on this and will leave it for another week.

v i am thankful for…for my family.  For being able to live life out loud J

v From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) Grace.    Speaking respectfully but openly.  This is harder than it seems because I have had to make sure my words are not accusatory.  So something I would normally say, such as you do this, is changed to say

v From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  Have not bought my new crockpot yet.  I am going to check around some garage sales…maybe I can find one.  I have started my goal of teaching my kids how to really cook a meal as opposed to popping  something in the microwave.

v i am wearing…my workout cloths.  Keeping true to my goal of not gaining my winter blubber…LOL    So far so good on the fitness goal.  I did not gain weight over the holiday break and I am still feeling good (backwise) J

v i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;)  I am a work of art being molded and formed by Master.

v my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  No adventures this week.  Getting back into the groove or being at work fulltime.

v Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  Okay, I have been taking the easy way out of actually holding a book and have been listening to books on the iphone Master gave to me.    My most recent podiobook was about an internet company being bought out by Zombinc.  Zombinc employees Zombies only.    LOL

v i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) Peace and tranquility in my house and with my children.

v Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) Was listening to a really funky house beat while working out.  Then started listening to Incognito.

v One of my favorite things… has become the endorphin rush from working out.  I always love to just get out doors and run.  Such a freeing experience.  There is always a challenge to be met in running so I never get bored of it.  I am glad that with my physical limitation I can get back outside and run.

v further plans for this week…Continuing to fix the house to sell.  It has been extremely windy on the east coast and such wind tore pieces of siding from my house.  Sighs…something else to add to the list.

v Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

Want to start something different for the new year.  Here are the directions:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention my blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   http://www.servicesaviorefair.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂





Service Book of Days – 12/7/09

7 12 2009
  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  is a cold and chilly evening but very refreshing after the stuffiness of being inside.  Mmmmm I love the crispness in the air.
  • my thoughts…are pensive.  I crashed harder than usual from being with Master and I am not sure why.  I think it is the separation that is finally getting to me.  I know my relationship with Master is secure.  I just am so ready to be with him.
  • Today’s Quote… Love is everything it’s cracked up to be…It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.    Erica Jong, O Magazine, February 2004

    I know I had this quote for last week but I am still feeling it.  For myself, in the past, if stuff got too hard for me emotionally or called for me to open up more than was comfortable for me, I would have bolted or shut myself off.  I was trying to preserve and protect myself but in reality I was putting myself in a cage.

    Love is really worth fighting for not just for the other person but for myself.  Freedom of expression and self…authentic life, as someone told me

  • i am thankful for…each and everyday.
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) My daughter is teaching me how to crochet.    I made my first chain and half a scarf.
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  I made baked chicken with ginger, cheddar cheese cornbread and mixed vegetables.
  • i am wearing…my workout clothes and I had a chance to go to the gym after work.  Doing two times a day.
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;)  peace and tranquility and the feeling of the season for my children.  Joyous and celebratory and thankful.
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  No adventures this week.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  I am still reading Anneke Jacobs book “As She’s told”.
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) Peace and tranquility in my house and with my children.
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) So while trying to find the song that Master and I danced to, I came across this song by Atlantic Star.  Man I love the music from this area.

  • One of my favorite things..is to read a good book.
  • further plans for this week…Continuing to fix the house to sell.
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

photo used with permission of creative commons license agreement.

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=3021422

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention my blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂





Nice Video On Formal Dining Service

4 12 2009

Enjoy

MV








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