Relationships – The House of Void

Consent and BDSM

It has been brought to my attention that our community is having a discussion about consent. That is a good thing. I think that consent is one of the Foundations of BDSM. A core principal, along with Honesty and Trust. But what is it and how do we achieve consent in our relationships? What is theContinue reading “Consent and BDSM”

“Why?”

This weekend Master and I realized that we communicate differently. Shocker, I know…LOL This communication difference though is in terms of how each of us deal with the question “Why?” “Imagination is more important than knowledge..” ~.Albert Einstein US (German-born) physicist (1879 – 1955) When I ask the question “Why?’, most times it is notContinue reading ““Why?””

Let It Flow…

Words for the day: Let it Flow The chorus for this song has been playing in my head all week. Sometimes in the background most times in the foreground when I wake up. The song talks about releasing a relationship but I think it can also mean that we need to release thoseContinue reading “Let It Flow…”

Trusting Again

To me trust is like seeing a flower bloom. Little by little the flower blooms. The tight flower releases becoming softer and softer. You open yourself up and let down your guard. No protective coverings, soft and yielding. In some ways you connect and intertwine yourself with someone else. It is not something thatContinue reading “Trusting Again”

My Slave Isn’t My Girlfriend

I saw a post on FetLife the other day where someone asked why her Dom said she made a better girlfriend than a sub. This cause a bit of confusion for people. They did not get that there was a real difference between a girlfriend and a full time submissive. You see, in a modernContinue reading “My Slave Isn’t My Girlfriend”

Master Void and esclave Presents: Mastering a Long Distance Relationship

esclave and I presented our Mastering a Long Distance Relationship presentation last night at the MBZ conference.. A lot of folks wondered where they could get the slides that I used. So I offered to put them up here, at House of Void. So, click, download Mastering A Long Distance Relationship and enjoy! MV Oh,Continue reading “Master Void and esclave Presents: Mastering a Long Distance Relationship”