Introducing Cyberdiva 

13 06 2017

I was asked last week by a dear friend if she could contribute to the House of Void blog. I’ll be honest, without knowing what exactly she would write about I said yes. I think you’ll like her, I do. I’ve known her now for over a decade. In her own words she is:

I am cyberdiva. Here are a few things about me. This is a very brief synopsis.

  • have been actively living in the BDSM lifestyle as a sexual slave, for over two decades.
  • professional discrete counselor and active civically
  • published writer in the areas of self-help and erotica
  • Check out my Fetlife profile here –

Feel free to ask if you want to know more… let’s have some verbal discourse.


I hope you enjoy reading her stuff.


Master Void and esclave Presents: Mastering a Long Distance Relationship

30 03 2011

esclave and I presented our Mastering a Long Distance Relationship presentation last night at the MBZ conference..  A lot of folks wondered where they could get the slides that I used. So I offered to put them up here, at House of Void. So, click, download Mastering A Long Distance Relationship and enjoy!


Oh, and if you have never been to the MBZ conferee, I highly recommend it. It is a free online conference hosted every week by Master Zeus on Tuesday and Thursday nights at nine pm eastern.

Happy New Year

31 12 2009

I just wanted to take a moment and thank those that have been reading my blog of the past couple of years. I think that I have grown a lot while doing this and have had a good time writing each post.I have tried to take the time to focus my blog on BDSM related activities or events that would interest as many as possible. I also hoped that you guys had as much fun reading it as I had writing it.

In the new year, I hope to bring you more of the same. I would also like to get better at this, so if you guys have any constructive criticism or feedback let me know.

That said, I wish you all a wonderful New Year. May it be a good one.


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House of Void Collaring Ceremony for Esclave

21 01 2009

Thought that I would share my collaring ceremony that I used this past weekend with exclave. Please let me know what you think of it.

House of Void Collaring Ceremony

The room is lit by white candles, the collar rests on a black pillow placed on a table draped with a red cloth.

Master Void: “Welcome to My House.  I have invited you all here to celebrate with me the collaring of Rxxxxxx to Myself.
“In our lifestyle collaring can be virtual, represented by words typed on a screen.  Less often, a master will place a leather or metal band around the neck of his slave, in private.  Less frequently, friends are invited to witness a ritual of collaring.  Today,  that is what you will witness.
“I am glad that each of you could make it here today, and it warms my heart to see each of you and have you in my home.
“A collar, for those of us in the Lifestyle, represents a physical representation of the commitment that Rxxxxxx and I have pledged to each other. Today, you will bear witness to this commitment.

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