Top 5 Kinks

2 09 2018

I ran across this article in Vice today on the top 5 kinks in the US. It was an interesting read, even if I don’t agree with it’s conclusions. The 5 are:

  1. Group Sex
  2. BDSM
  3. Novelty and Adventure
  4. Taboo Sex
  5. Partner Sharing and Non-Monogamy

So of these “Kinks”, I only count two as being truly kinky. Group Sex is just sex with multiple people at the same time. Nothing inherently kinky in this.

Novelty and Adventure is a very ambitious category. so broad as to make it worthless. Basically anything that isn’t missionary is how I would read that. This is a pretty useless category.

Partner Sharing and Non-Monogamy includes both swinging and polyamory. Only one of these would I categorize a kink (swinging), the other I would say is a relationship style, and not a kink.

BDSM, well that is the first one I would say really is a kink. But it is very broad as well. I would like to see more specific kinks, rather than general broad categories.

Taboo sex seems a little tame by their definition. It is definitely a kink, but they specifically call out exhibitionism, voyeurism, and “fetish-objects”, but the category encompasses many more activities.

Frankly I found the research useless, something with real kink activities would be more useful, and less offensive.

 

MV

 

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Where Will Master Void Be?

26 08 2018

I am doing two presentations in October at the Living On The Edge – Edge play fund raising event, where I’ll be teaching Electrical Play and Caning. Both of these presentations will be more heavily focused on the theme on the event so even if you’ve seem me speak on the topics before, you might learn something new.

The location is somewhere between Raleigh and Fayetteville, and the cost is a suggested $30 donation.

I hope to see you there.

MV





Teldildonics Patent Expires

19 08 2018

I learned this week that the patent on remotely operated computer controlled sex toys expired this week. These toys are very popular on sex cam sites where the models/performers allow their customers to control the dildos in exchange for payment. I myself would love to have one on my future slave that was controlled by bluetooth and her phone.

The site Ars Technica speculates that this will spark an explosion in new sex toys. I for one am very interested.

MV





BDSM Yoga?

24 11 2017

Interesting story.

BDSM Yoga Exists, for Some Reason – Broadly





LifeHacker: The Nice Person’s Introduction to Rough Sex

25 06 2017

LifeHacker put up a good article on how to get into rough sex. Worth checking out.

Frankly, I don’t think I’ve had any other kind of sex, but then that is just me.

MV





Introducing Cyberdiva 

13 06 2017

I was asked last week by a dear friend if she could contribute to the House of Void blog. I’ll be honest, without knowing what exactly she would write about I said yes. I think you’ll like her, I do. I’ve known her now for over a decade. In her own words she is:

I am cyberdiva. Here are a few things about me. This is a very brief synopsis.

  • have been actively living in the BDSM lifestyle as a sexual slave, for over two decades.
  • professional discrete counselor and active civically
  • published writer in the areas of self-help and erotica
  • Check out my Fetlife profile here – https://fetlife.com/Cyberdiva

Feel free to ask if you want to know more… let’s have some verbal discourse.

 

I hope you enjoy reading her stuff.

MV





Presenting today!

28 01 2017

I’m talking about cybersecurity in Charlotte today. How to protect yourself online. There is still time to attend, but you need to act now. Check out my previous article for info on how to attend.

 

MV








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