Question: “If M/s is a power exchange, an exchange being “the act of giving or taking one thing in return for another” What power did any of the master’s transfer to their slaves? If the answer is none- then there is no exchange of power. If there was a transfer of power, a negotiated act,Continue reading “Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender”
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Post for Monday
Nothing new with me at the moment. Our weekend was good. We saw Batman. I would recommend it to anyone. Great wrap up to a trilogy Sad start to the week with the stuff going on in Colorado. As President Obama said…life is precious and each moment we have with each other is important. WasteContinue reading “Post for Monday”
To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice
Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit. Yes slaves, unless you are brain-damaged or brainwashed, it is your choice. It may not be your preference but you choose every day toContinue reading “To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice”
Active Listening, Positive Reinforcement, Perception, and Growth
I know, that’s a lot for a title….LOL But it is all things I want to talk about. Hopefully my thoughts are clear, if not, ask. I will include no disclaimers about my words… Several thoughts on this subject have been popping around in my head. I found this really good article on “Active Listening”Continue reading “Active Listening, Positive Reinforcement, Perception, and Growth”
Being a Real Master Is Hard Work
I knew this when I started. Being a good master is hard. Really hard. It requires constant attention to your behavior. Requires consistency in your actions. That doesn’t mean you can’t grow. You can change. But you need to allow your slave to adjust. Watch out for love. It will sap your will. It willContinue reading “Being a Real Master Is Hard Work”
50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….
My post tonight will be a short one. Something I have come to realize in relationships is that when things start to go bad people start to look at how much each has contributed to the relationship. We start to become consumed with the percentages we give in relation to the other party. We startContinue reading “50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….”
The House of Void 