Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender

Question: “If M/s is a power exchange, an exchange being “the act of giving or taking one thing in return for another” What power did any of the master’s transfer to their slaves? If the answer is none- then there is no exchange of power. If there was a transfer of power, a negotiated act,Continue reading “Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender”

To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice

Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit. Yes slaves, unless you are brain-damaged or brainwashed, it is your choice. It may not be your preference but you choose every day toContinue reading “To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice”

Trusting Again

To me trust is like seeing a flower bloom.  Little by little the flower blooms.  The tight flower releases becoming softer and softer.  You open yourself up and let down your guard.  No protective coverings, soft and yielding. In some ways you connect and intertwine yourself with someone else.    It is not something thatContinue reading “Trusting Again”

Power Exchange

I have heard many times that slaves get their pleasure out of serving their Master.  They want nothing for themselves except to serve their Masters.   LOL Okay maybe I shouldn’t laugh but I find that funny sometimes.  When taken out of context this seems like the slave is the Madonna in the relationship.  SheContinue reading “Power Exchange”