Negotiations: Are You Doing It Wrong?

I was reading the other day about a very well known professional submissive who had a bad scene. While she was tied up, on stage, the person she was with refused to stop when she said to stop.  He was wanting her to say, “red”. It is sad to see such a fuck up. IContinue reading “Negotiations: Are You Doing It Wrong?”

50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….

My post tonight will be a short one. Something I have come to realize in relationships is that when things start to go bad people start to look at how much each has contributed to the relationship.  We start to become consumed with the percentages we give in relation to the other party. We startContinue reading “50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….”

Adjustments

So these last few months Master and I have both spoken of the adjustments we have had to make in being together. The issues we had in relating to each other were put on the back burner due to our distance. It was realized that our communication skills were really lacking. Truthfully, my habit ofContinue reading “Adjustments”