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Active Listening, Positive Reinforcement, Perception, and Growth

I know, that’s a lot for a title….LOL  But it is all things I want to talk about.  Hopefully my thoughts are clear, if not, ask. I will include no disclaimers about my words… Several thoughts on this subject have been popping around in my head. I found this really good article on “Active Listening”Continue reading “Active Listening, Positive Reinforcement, Perception, and Growth”

50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….

My post tonight will be a short one. Something I have come to realize in relationships is that when things start to go bad people start to look at how much each has contributed to the relationship.  We start to become consumed with the percentages we give in relation to the other party. We startContinue reading “50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….”

Trusting Again

To me trust is like seeing a flower bloom.  Little by little the flower blooms.  The tight flower releases becoming softer and softer.  You open yourself up and let down your guard.  No protective coverings, soft and yielding. In some ways you connect and intertwine yourself with someone else.    It is not something thatContinue reading “Trusting Again”

Topping from the Bottom: What Does It Mean?

My slave wrote about this a while back. But I have been reading others posts on FetLife, and I realized a lot of people are misinformed about what “Topping from the bottom” really is. I have seen far too many tops try to manipulate their partners by telling them inappropriately that they were trying toContinue reading “Topping from the Bottom: What Does It Mean?”

Power Exchange

I have heard many times that slaves get their pleasure out of serving their Master.  They want nothing for themselves except to serve their Masters.   LOL Okay maybe I shouldn’t laugh but I find that funny sometimes.  When taken out of context this seems like the slave is the Madonna in the relationship.  SheContinue reading “Power Exchange”