An Alternative Source for Kajira Outfits

I have been asked in the past for a replacement source for kajira outfits. The source I wrote about earlier is no longer making those types of outfits. I was asked recently if I knew of another source, and at the time I didn’t. I did some searching and I found a store on EtsyContinue reading “An Alternative Source for Kajira Outfits”

Active Listening, Positive Reinforcement, Perception, and Growth

I know, that’s a lot for a title….LOL  But it is all things I want to talk about.  Hopefully my thoughts are clear, if not, ask. I will include no disclaimers about my words… Several thoughts on this subject have been popping around in my head. I found this really good article on “Active Listening”Continue reading “Active Listening, Positive Reinforcement, Perception, and Growth”

50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….

My post tonight will be a short one. Something I have come to realize in relationships is that when things start to go bad people start to look at how much each has contributed to the relationship.  We start to become consumed with the percentages we give in relation to the other party. We startContinue reading “50/50, 75/25, 60/40, 100/0….”

Nancy Ava Miller

So every once and a while, I run across something I find fascinating. That happened a few weeks ago when I was approached about Nancy Ava Miller doing a tour to support her new book: PERVERT: Notes from the Sexual Underground. I did a bit of research and found out that she is the ladyContinue reading “Nancy Ava Miller”

Centered Through Meditation

One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes.   I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room.  This helps me relax my mind after such a busy day which usually starts at 6:30am.  Admittedly itContinue reading “Centered Through Meditation”

BDSM Events This Week: 1 in Real Time and 1 in Virtual Space

I wanted to bring to your attention two events that I recommend and will actually be attending. The first event is the BZ Conference in cyberspace. My girl has mentioned these before, but with what is coming up on Thursday, I thought I would mention it again. Master Black Zeus has been running these conferencesContinue reading “BDSM Events This Week: 1 in Real Time and 1 in Virtual Space”