Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender

Question: “If M/s is a power exchange, an exchange being “the act of giving or taking one thing in return for another” What power did any of the master’s transfer to their slaves? If the answer is none- then there is no exchange of power. If there was a transfer of power, a negotiated act,Continue reading “Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender”

The Parable of Three Cubes of Ice

Today I was attending the Local MasT (Masters and slaves together) meeting and was reminded of a tale I told years ago. Some how it had slipped my mind. But tonight I am sharing with you all. The rule was simple. 3 cubes of ice. She was to have His drink prepared each evening whenContinue reading “The Parable of Three Cubes of Ice”

Post for Monday

Nothing new with me at the moment. Our weekend was good. We saw Batman.  I would recommend it to anyone.  Great wrap up to a trilogy Sad start to the week with the stuff going on in Colorado.   As President Obama said…life is precious and each moment we have with each other is important.   WasteContinue reading “Post for Monday”

To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice

Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit. Yes slaves, unless you are brain-damaged or brainwashed, it is your choice. It may not be your preference but you choose every day toContinue reading “To Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice”

Being a Real Master Is Hard Work

I knew this when I started. Being a good master is hard. Really hard.  It requires constant attention to your behavior. Requires consistency in your actions. That doesn’t mean you can’t grow. You can change. But you need to allow your slave to adjust. Watch out for love. It will sap your will. It willContinue reading “Being a Real Master Is Hard Work”