So Master and I are getting married yay. But now I am wondering if marriage changes an M/s relationship. Master has been reminding me that this marriage does not change our dynamic. I am his slave first and foremost. The marriage is purely for legal reasons only. I am going to write my observations aboutContinue reading “Marriage and M/s”
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Centered Through Meditation
One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes. I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room. This helps me relax my mind after such a busy day which usually starts at 6:30am. Admittedly itContinue reading “Centered Through Meditation”
Where Will Master Void Be?
Just a quickie today. Thought I would mention the classes I will be teaching that are coming up this month. The first is for T3WD in Columbia. They have their vendor fair next weekend (the 18th), and I will be talking about how to manage a long distance relationship. Since esclave and I have beenContinue reading “Where Will Master Void Be?”
How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship
I am going to attempt to write this and hopefully it won’t come across as sounding full of regret. When I met Master I was in a relationship with someone who was on the other side of US in the Pacific Northwest. This relationship was really hard as I am the type of person whoContinue reading “How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship”
How Not to Negotiate: Topping from the Bottom
Topping from the Bottom Girl, what you are doing is “topping from the bottom”. I have no desire to be in control of this relationship so why would Sir say that I am topping from the bottom. What exactly does it mean to Top from the bottom? I saw this definition from the Society ofContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate: Topping from the Bottom”
How not to negotiate: Sucks to be you
I remember early on in our relationship Master’s response to my saying something that I did not want to do was “well sucks to be you”. I would laugh because in my mind it was a joke. Of course he would take into account everything and pay attention to my feelings. As time went onContinue reading “How not to negotiate: Sucks to be you”
The House of Void 