Question: “If M/s is a power exchange, an exchange being “the act of giving or taking one thing in return for another” What power did any of the master’s transfer to their slaves? If the answer is none- then there is no exchange of power. If there was a transfer of power, a negotiated act,Continue reading “Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender”
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Consent and BDSM
It has been brought to my attention that our community is having a discussion about consent. That is a good thing. I think that consent is one of the Foundations of BDSM. A core principal, along with Honesty and Trust. But what is it and how do we achieve consent in our relationships? What is theContinue reading “Consent and BDSM”
Trusting Again
To me trust is like seeing a flower bloom. Little by little the flower blooms. The tight flower releases becoming softer and softer. You open yourself up and let down your guard. No protective coverings, soft and yielding. In some ways you connect and intertwine yourself with someone else. It is not something thatContinue reading “Trusting Again”
Definitions: Dom Vs. Master; Round 1
I have been seeing a few discussions on FetLife where people are wondering what the differences are between a Dominant and a Master. In many ways, there isn’t a lot of a difference, in others there are whole worlds of differences. First, I do want to make clear that these are my opinions and notContinue reading “Definitions: Dom Vs. Master; Round 1”
The House of Void 