I knew this when I started. Being a good master is hard. Really hard. It requires constant attention to your behavior. Requires consistency in your actions. That doesn’t mean you can’t grow. You can change. But you need to allow your slave to adjust.
Watch out for love. It will sap your will. It will make you less consistent. I was aware of this possibility, it still happened.
And, when you figure it out, it is a long slow recovery. Only you can fix the shit you created.
Remember though, that it can be fixed. and you have to fix it.
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Dear Sir and sub/slave/bottom,
Thank you for writing from The Master and slave perspective. It honestly never occured to me to consider how hard it must be to assume responsibility as a Master/Owner. I never thought about it. I knew my job was to see to my Owners comforts and needs, But I never considered how frustrating ot exhausting it might be. Please continue writing so I can learn and others as well.
A new fan
-c- Property of Sir K