Category Archives: BDSM

Marriage and M/s

So Master and I are getting married yay.  But now I am wondering if marriage changes an M/s relationship. Master has been reminding me that this marriage does not change our dynamic.  I am his slave first and foremost.  The marriage is purely for legal reasons only. I am going to write my observations aboutContinue reading “Marriage and M/s”

Custom BDSM Jewelry

While I was at FFF this weekend, I ran across a very interesting vendor who creates custom BDSM oriented jewelry.  While I didn’t purchase anything from him this weekend, I had a good discussion and carefully inspected the goods he had on display.  Symbolic Treasures was the name of the store. They specialize in customContinue reading “Custom BDSM Jewelry”

Centered Through Meditation

One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes.   I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room.  This helps me relax my mind after such a busy day which usually starts at 6:30am.  Admittedly itContinue reading “Centered Through Meditation”

Master Void on Consent

My Google reader had two interesting articles in it about consent and the law today. One happened in Australia, the other in Sweden. Both involve a man being aggressive to a woman. Both are kind of complex situations. The Australian one involves a man and his ex-wife/former submissive. The other involves a 32 year old man andContinue reading “Master Void on Consent”

Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s

Just some a random thought for tonight. I realize that Master and I do very well managing our relationship with children involved.  Even managing to have playtime with the kids in the house. We use quiet techniques.  Meaning that I am not allowed to make any noise no matter how much it hurts.  For meContinue reading “Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s”

How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship

I am going to attempt to write this and hopefully it won’t come across as sounding full of regret. When I met Master I was in a relationship with someone who was on the other side of US in the Pacific Northwest.  This relationship was really hard as I am the type of person whoContinue reading “How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship”