Thoughts On My Upcoming Marriage

  This time next week I will be married to my slave. For myself, this isn’t a big deal for the most part. It simplifies many of the legalities, though it may complicate finding a second slave. Or not. It is not something I can control, so I choose not to worry about  it.   ForContinue reading “Thoughts On My Upcoming Marriage”

BrideZilla…Not allowed

As I mentioned last week Master and I are getting married…yay…really really soon…yay but argh. Master said small ceremony big family reception.    Fine with me.  I think it would really be special if the ceremony included him, me  and the children.  Very personal…very special. Planning this however has taken me through some changes.  Continue reading “BrideZilla…Not allowed”

Where Will Master Void Be?

Just a quickie today.  Thought I would mention the classes I will be teaching that are coming up this month. The first is for T3WD in Columbia.  They have their vendor fair next weekend (the 18th), and I will be talking about how to manage a long distance relationship. Since esclave and I have beenContinue reading “Where Will Master Void Be?”

How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?

I thought this post would be a deviation from the normal tone of my “How Not to Negotiate” posts but I think it fits.  So often many come in to this lifestyle wondering how to find the One for them or asking what qualifications a Dominant would need to have for them.   So manyContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?”

Thoughts on Quality

I started this blog a little over three years ago. I have learned over time to be consistent with my posting, trying to get something interesting on this site at least three times a week. Once by my lovely slave, and two times by me. But sometimes life gets in the way. Every once andContinue reading “Thoughts on Quality”

BDSM 101: Collaring and Collaring Ceremonies

I posted a few weeks ago about the ceremony that my esclave and I went through that formally acknowledged our relationship. In the lifestyle we call this a collaring ceremony. The collar is a physical representation of the spiritual bond between a Dominant and his submissive. A collaring ceremony is akin to a wedding inContinue reading “BDSM 101: Collaring and Collaring Ceremonies”