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A lesson to Remember

This was something I posted on my personal page a while ago. As I remember my journey and take pride in my present I think this is one lesson that I should not forget. ========================================== I hope you never lose your sense of wonder You get your fill to eat But always keep thatContinue reading “A lesson to Remember”

Centered Through Meditation

One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes. I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room. This helps me relax my mind after such a busy day which usually starts at 6:30am. Admittedly itContinue reading “Centered Through Meditation”

Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s

Just some a random thought for tonight. I realize that Master and I do very well managing our relationship with children involved. Even managing to have playtime with the kids in the house. We use quiet techniques. Meaning that I am not allowed to make any noise no matter how much it hurts. For meContinue reading “Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s”

How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship

I am going to attempt to write this and hopefully it won’t come across as sounding full of regret. When I met Master I was in a relationship with someone who was on the other side of US in the Pacific Northwest. This relationship was really hard as I am the type of person whoContinue reading “How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship”

How Not to Negotiate: Topping from the Bottom

Topping from the Bottom Girl, what you are doing is “topping from the bottom”. I have no desire to be in control of this relationship so why would Sir say that I am topping from the bottom. What exactly does it mean to Top from the bottom? I saw this definition from the Society ofContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate: Topping from the Bottom”

How not to negotiate: Sucks to be you

I remember early on in our relationship Master’s response to my saying something that I did not want to do was “well sucks to be you”. I would laugh because in my mind it was a joke. Of course he would take into account everything and pay attention to my feelings. As time went onContinue reading “How not to negotiate: Sucks to be you”