Consistency. That is a word that is often used in our community, but do we really understand what it means? It doesn’t mean being strict. It doesn’t mean being boring or being repetitive. What it means is that you are the same now as when you began the relationship. It doesn’t mean your interests can’tContinue reading “Consistency”
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2010: A Few Thoughts to End a Year
[Youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGJuMBdaqIw] 2010 has been a very interesting year for those in the House of Void. I was in the middle of an implosion of my local community, when one of the leaders began a rabid campaign against anyone who had different views, I lost my job, got a new one, had to back out of a major commitment,Continue reading “2010: A Few Thoughts to End a Year”
Masters: Study Slavery
OK, this is going to be a short post. I wanted to talk about something for the Masters today. We have to know a lot of stuff to be good at what we do. But I think that one of the things that is often ignored is the importance of a Master of knowing whatContinue reading “Masters: Study Slavery”
Marriage and M/s
So Master and I are getting married yay. But now I am wondering if marriage changes an M/s relationship. Master has been reminding me that this marriage does not change our dynamic. I am his slave first and foremost. The marriage is purely for legal reasons only. I am going to write my observations aboutContinue reading “Marriage and M/s”
Centered Through Meditation
One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes. I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room. This helps me relax my mind after such a busy day which usually starts at 6:30am. Admittedly itContinue reading “Centered Through Meditation”
How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?
I thought this post would be a deviation from the normal tone of my “How Not to Negotiate” posts but I think it fits. So often many come in to this lifestyle wondering how to find the One for them or asking what qualifications a Dominant would need to have for them. So manyContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?”
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