Earned Leather…

I’m a slow learner, slow talker, and slow thinker.  I have to take time to contemplate things to really understand them. For some reason I have been contemplating  someone’s questioning on whether they should keep the leather they earned.  Sitting here writing about a completely different lesson about my personal journey the below just becameContinue reading “Earned Leather…”

Trusting Again

To me trust is like seeing a flower bloom.  Little by little the flower blooms.  The tight flower releases becoming softer and softer.  You open yourself up and let down your guard.  No protective coverings, soft and yielding. In some ways you connect and intertwine yourself with someone else.    It is not something thatContinue reading “Trusting Again”

Topping from the Bottom: What Does It Mean?

My slave wrote about this a while back. But I have been reading others posts on FetLife, and I realized a lot of people are misinformed about what “Topping from the bottom” really is. I have seen far too many tops try to manipulate their partners by telling them inappropriately that they were trying toContinue reading “Topping from the Bottom: What Does It Mean?”