Find A Munch

For those of you looking to meet people who are also into kink in a realtime and safe environment, please check out the MALL directory (aka: The Munch+Adult Local Link). From the site publisher: The Directory is an extensive collection of links and descriptions to locality-based groups, gatherings and resources worldwide.  It has been in developmentContinue reading “Find A Munch”

Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and Sadomasochism: Why S&M will never go mainstream. – Slate Magazine

I am seeing more and more articles about S&M in mainstream media. Here is one from Slate. I’m going to have to read it more than once to digest it, but I am not liking the flavor so far. Still he has some major points right, even if it is a bitter pill.   Bondage,Continue reading “Bondage, Dominance, Submission, and Sadomasochism: Why S&M will never go mainstream. – Slate Magazine”

BlackB.E.A.T. 2013 Canceled

Sad news folks. I received word yesterday that BlackB.E.A.T. won’t be happening this year. While the details as to why the event was canceled, they did say that they were looking for volunteers to run the event in 2014.  You can read more about it here. As avid readers of my blog already know, I haveContinue reading “BlackB.E.A.T. 2013 Canceled”

The Parable of Three Cubes of Ice

Today I was attending the Local MasT (Masters and slaves together) meeting and was reminded of a tale I told years ago. Some how it had slipped my mind. But tonight I am sharing with you all. The rule was simple. 3 cubes of ice. She was to have His drink prepared each evening whenContinue reading “The Parable of Three Cubes of Ice”

Is FetLife About to Go Out of Business?

I saw this question in the tech support forum on FetLife today. This sparked me to think about FetLife’s current situation. A few weeks ago JohnBaku announced that FetLife lost its relationship suddenly with it’s payment processor. Now if you read the full thread, you will see the end where iBill starts talking. To be honest,Continue reading “Is FetLife About to Go Out of Business?”