For those of you looking to meet people who are also into kink in a realtime and safe environment, please check out the MALL directory (aka:
The Munch+Adult Local Link). From the site publisher:
The Directory is an extensive collection of links and descriptions to locality-based groups, gatherings and resources worldwide. It has been in development for several years, being actively expanded and edited nearly every day. Currently, it has 1000s of links and 100s of daily views. Additionally, it has articles of use to lifestyle newcomers and to group organizers.
I’ve been meaning to link to it before. I think it will help you find someplace to get together. I wish a resource like this was around when I started out.