Walk Away

Negotiations are important in our Lifestyle. Even in a M/s relationship, at some point in the relationship you start talking about what is involved. That is negotiation. Finding out what you want, what you need in a relationship. And you have to find out what the other person is offering. Are they compatible? Will theyContinue reading “Walk Away”

Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender

Question: “If M/s is a power exchange, an exchange being “the act of giving or taking one thing in return for another” What power did any of the master’s transfer to their slaves? If the answer is none- then there is no exchange of power. If there was a transfer of power, a negotiated act,Continue reading “Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender”

FetLife’s Dirty Little Secret

FetLife has a secret. There are things it has not been telling you. There are things FetLife doesn’t want you to know about. Things FetLife has been strangely silent on. There are things there (some of which are allowed still by FetLife’s terms of use) that you cannot find.  When you search for these words, youContinue reading “FetLife’s Dirty Little Secret”