It has been a while since my last post I know, but I ran across something I wanted to share. Kotaku has a new post about a spanking game. It is about a domme trying to get a sub excited by spanking him. The game, called Hurt me Plenty, is designed to be used with aContinue reading “A Spanking Game?”
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A Research Call
I got an interesting message the other day from a young lady asking for her with her research. I thought it was a subject that needed more exposure, so I offered her to ask for help for her. So take a look below and see if you would like to help.
Walk Away
Negotiations are important in our Lifestyle. Even in a M/s relationship, at some point in the relationship you start talking about what is involved. That is negotiation. Finding out what you want, what you need in a relationship. And you have to find out what the other person is offering. Are they compatible? Will theyContinue reading “Walk Away”
Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender
Question: “If M/s is a power exchange, an exchange being “the act of giving or taking one thing in return for another” What power did any of the master’s transfer to their slaves? If the answer is none- then there is no exchange of power. If there was a transfer of power, a negotiated act,Continue reading “Negotiating and Slavery and Surrender”
FetLife’s Dirty Little Secret
FetLife has a secret. There are things it has not been telling you. There are things FetLife doesn’t want you to know about. Things FetLife has been strangely silent on. There are things there (some of which are allowed still by FetLife’s terms of use) that you cannot find. When you search for these words, youContinue reading “FetLife’s Dirty Little Secret”
Traditions Forgotten
There are a couple of items that have come to my attention that reminded me that we aren’t teaching the new people properly. So here are 2 things to keep in mind. 1) Keep it private. By and large, people in this Lifestyle want to keep their privacy. We tend to avoid full names (oftenContinue reading “Traditions Forgotten”