New Picture of a Previously Unseen Penis Structure.

27 07 2015

Weird, just weird.  Apparently we have known about this structure for some time, but never seen it. I don’t normally like link linking to Gizmodo, but they have the story.


Study: Losers More Likely to Harass Women

23 07 2015

This follows under Duh, and yes this is of more general interest than strictly BDSM or M/s, but I like to think I run a sex positive blog. Ars Technica reports that researchers discovered that women received harsher comments than men, not surprising and that people who tended to be the worst harassers were men who had the worst playing record.

Sad, but not surprising.


Sexual Fetish Researchers Categorize Fetish Popularity

21 07 2015

Interesting study I ran across in the Guardian, where researchers downloaded discussions from fetish discussion groups, then spent 3 years analyzing them. Some crazy stuff there, but nothing really unexpected. Feet top the list, with body sizes next. Least favorite body fetish? Body odor. I didn’t know there was a fetish for that even

Oddest fetish? 2 were into pacemakers.

Check it out


Bluetooth Clit Stimulation Implant (WTF?!?)

3 04 2015

Just a short thing for Friday, here is a bluetooth implant used to stimulate your clit.  Pretty expensive and apparently uses body heat for charging the device.

Might even be more fun if they made an app that remote controls it over the internet, eh? It is a neat body mod, if you are into controlling your slave like that.


NC Contemplates Same Legislation that Has Indiana Flummoxed

31 03 2015

On the heels of the legislation that has Indiana wishing they had smarter legislators, NC Legislator Paul Stam (R) proposed House Bill 348 NC, or the Religious Freedom Restoration Act. Last I checked religious freedom wasn’t a problem. Bigots and small minds was one though. If you live in NC, write your local representative. If you aren’t, make sure your state isn’t.


50 Shades of Grey Bumps BDSM Porn Searches

23 03 2015

Something came across my radar today. 50 Shades of Grey caused a bump in searches on BDSM while surfing for porn according to Pornhub. Hardly surprising, but interesting to note.  That said, if you are looking for better BDSM art than you would find in the 50 Shades books or film, I would look at the 12 artists referred to in this article over in the Huffington Post.  Much more entertaining and thought provoking.

BlackBEAT Conference on 

13 03 2015

I’ve been an attendee for this conference for years. I met my slave and wife here. I’m on the core team as well. I thought I would post our message here for my readers. 

Greetings Black BEAT Family,

Ten plus years has proven our allegiance and unrelenting efforts to serve the BDSM community.  We’ve made history and have been able to bring together African Americans from across the country over the years, and we’re extremely proud of that.

A sentinel moment has come.  Your Black BEAT Founders and Executive Board have decided to a hiatus.  We intend to be vigilant in our determination to explore meaningful ways to promote education and enjoyment upon our future return. 

We set lofty goals and we have accomplished what we set out to do and then some.  Last year our conference was a huge success, and our hiatus comes at a perfect pivotal time. Bringing people of color together and encouraging them to start their own groups and events helped to emphasize education.  We did not have a Black BEAT type social arena 12 years ago when we began our journey.  Thank you to those who saw the vision and have ventured toward your own thing! 

We now intend to create a big dream list to set our sights on designing our international conference to possibly involve more positive and affordable experiences.  While we do not have a date to announce when we will return, we feel extremely fortunate to have had all the experiences and to have met so many amazing people along the way.  The amount of gratitude for those who have attended is immeasurable, and we’re forever grateful for the support of those attending one or all of our conferences, including our dynamic presenters.  We are forever grateful for every moment of your time.

Thanks to ALL of you for your ongoing support and love. Taking a break can be risky, however, we are confident that our return will be worth the wait.  You are a constant inspiration to us, and we will keep our purpose constant.  You will receive ample time to rejoin us upon our return.

This is not good bye, this is until we meet again!

Sincerely in Kink,

Black BEAT Founders & Executive Board 


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