Topping from the Bottom: What Does It Mean?

My slave wrote about this a while back. But I have been reading others posts on FetLife, and I realized a lot of people are misinformed about what “Topping from the bottom” really is. I have seen far too many tops try to manipulate their partners by telling them inappropriately that they were trying toContinue reading “Topping from the Bottom: What Does It Mean?”

How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?

I thought this post would be a deviation from the normal tone of my “How Not to Negotiate” posts but I think it fits.  So often many come in to this lifestyle wondering how to find the One for them or asking what qualifications a Dominant would need to have for them.   So manyContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?”

I Too Are An Internets Dominate

Ok, this shouldn’t take too long.  Pay attention. There will be a quiz at the end. I see a fairly common statement made by D-types out on the internets, and I feel compelled to say something. If you have made this mistake, please take note of what I am about to tell you and correctContinue reading “I Too Are An Internets Dominate”