Angelina Jolie into S&M?

The Sun from Brittan released a video (sorry you have to go to their page, it isn’t linkable) where Angelina Jolie boasts about liking to tie people up.

In the video, shot in 1999 when she was 23, the actress brags about loving sado-masochistic SEX – and KILLING her pets.

She says of taking part in sex games where someone is tied down or hurt: “It’s just a cool thing.”

MV

***UPDATE***

Found the video on Youtube. Enjoy

Interesting Slave Training Idea

Was reading a blog and I saw an idea for training slaves in proper posture. Thing provoke any ideas from you guys?


When the Relationship Is Over, Just Get Out

From Brittan,  we find the story of  lovers who  broke up.  A common tale, but this time with a bit of a twist (sadly though not an up predictable twist).

A JEALOUS boyfriend stole sex toys from an ex-partner to prevent her using them with a new lover, a court heard.
Paul Ashcroft stole lingerie, gauntlets, shackles and a whip from the home he once shared with Claire Bainbridge.

Bridie Smurthwaite, prosecuting, said after stealing the items Ashcroft sent Ms Bainbridge a text message telling her to “check her drawers”.

There are so many things wrong here, I don’t know where to start.

MV

Protocols pt 2

In my previous post about protocols, I discussed some of my philosophy about protocols. I talked about some of the things to not do when your devising them. But how do I go about creating the protocols that I use? What goes into making a good protocol?

Personally I think that developing a protocol should start with your philosophy about the Lifestyle. Have a plan about what you want to accomplish. As an example, I have the basic philosophy that protocols should reflect the situation that we find ourselves in. I have decided that there should be separate modes of behaviors to cover different social situations. I call them high protocol mode for formal situations, and low protocol more casual occasions.

My philosophy about High Protocol reflects my desire for my slave to be totally focused on myself.  Unless specifically directed otherwise, I should be a bright and shining light for her to be focused on. Her every action should be attentive to my directions and focused on meeting my needs. Even when she is in another room, she should be doing everything as if I was there.

My philosophy about the low protocols reflect a need to make allowances for down time, time with friends both in and out of the lifestyle, and our families. These rules allow her to be more relaxed, though she should still be focused on me.  The intensity should be much less. A more relaxed posture, rules should be acceptable to the vanilla world as well as the kinky one.

So, what are your reactions to this?

Next time, some specific protocols.

MV

Did you hear me girl?

this is what i want you to do today girl?  

go car shopping…not buying.

Do you understand girl?

yes Sir, i understand.  i’ll do that.  (verbalized)

i have to beg my sister to borrow her car so that i can go suit shopping and food shopping and pick up food from my mom before i can go car shopping.  i am not going to have enough time to go car shopping (unverbalized)

with Sir i am to be obedient, open, and honest at all times in all situations.  yes my life is hectic but in order for Sir to be in my life he has to know my life and all of my struggles and situations.  my fault was in not telling Sir what else i had going on.  i was being dishonest by omission and disobedient. therefore i was not being open or honest to him.

 i am learning to be Sir’s.  this means i need to learn how to be open in my life, disseminating all informaiton and accepting of His input into my life.

i also realized something else, during these times when i am being dishonest by omission i am doing something else. i am trying to govern his feelings.  i am in a way trying to control how Sir should feel.  as a single mom i am so used to making other peoples lives easier and disseminating the appropriate information to them that i unconciously do the same thing to Sir.  that is not my place with Sir. 

my love for Sir should show in my deeds as well as my words.  words are empty without truth.

 

Leather Museum Write-up

The site North-by-Northwestern has an interesting writeup about the leather museum.

An unassuming brick building stands at the end of a residential street in Rogers Park, and the only sign of what’s inside are two banners with boots on them and big block letters saying LA&M. Though you could walk by without noticing it, the building actually holds a museum documenting one of the most taboo topics in society: leather fetishes and alternative sexual practices. Welcome to the Leather Archives and Museum.

LA&M exhibits many items that you might expect, such as whips, erotica paintings and fetish dolls. This is not just a closet full of toys, though. Everything holds significance in the fetish culture. For example, a bright-red, custom-designed spanking bench on display did not just serve one person’s fantasy. The “Infamous Red Spanking Bench” was first used at a private BDSM (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, sado/masochism) party and traveled through various parties for two years before a Chicago BDSM club took it permanently.

“There’s definitely an educational opportunity here,” says museum director Rick Storer, who holds a master’s degree in library science. “I think one of the common misconceptions that people have of the museum is that it’s kind of this dark and seedy thing in the back of a rough leather bar. We are professional archives, professional library, professional museum. We handle the subject matter just as the people at the Art Institute or the Museum of Science and Industry do.”

Lots more there, so I suggest you check it out.