Kinbaku

14 08 2009

Since I am preping for BlackBEAT (which is tomorrow), I am just going to post a video.  But it is a good one.

Enjoy.

MV





New Jersey Dungeon Banned!

12 08 2009

A dungeon is a place where us kinky types get together and play. Normally, there is no sex, just adults mingling and having a good time.  There may be nudity, there will be play going on (mostly flogging and the like, blood play is usually reserved for more intimate settings). Frankly, because of the lack of drugs and alcohol, and only vetted adults getting in, a dungeon makes a better neighbor than a bar. In fact, except for people coming and going at different hours, one would never know there was anything going on in the building.

The Montclair decision to close the only dungeon in the area basically sucks. My understanding of the issue (through some postings on FetLife) is that one of the members of the local kink community got upset at the owners and filed a protest against them, causing the dungeon to be closed. From the NJ.com website:

MONTCLAIR — Montclair might be one of New Jersey’s more progressive communities, but even in a town known for its tolerance, a working fetish “dungeon” — complete with a spanking bench, “interrogation cell” and stocks — doesn’t belong on the busy downtown strip.

So says the township attorney in a decision that has bitterly disappointed Ed and Karen Dougherty, aka “Master Ed” and “slave Duchess,” the owners of Dressing for Pleasure, a Bloomfield Avenue shop that sells fetish clothing and tools of the bondage-and-discipline trade, from flogs and paddles to masks and spiked collars.

So, if you’re of a mind, how about writing them and letting them know how you feel. Frankly, and it is something I hate to admit, it appears that they did not have proper permits.  That will doom any business.  And now it may be impossible for them to get them after the complaints.

MV





Service Book of Days 8/10/09

10 08 2009
  • Outside my windowor on the train this morning i was viewing the people as they started their Monday

  • my thoughts…are chaotic

  • Today’s Quote… I have patience, I just don’t like to wait

  • i am thankful for…each day and moment that i have and being able to tell my family i love them

  • From my service training… I am learning how to organize

  • From the kitchen… I am learning how to cook for less people, with less money, in a less processed way

  • i am wearing…a royal blue sundress as it is 90 degrees with high humidity…yuck

  • i am creating… I am creating myself with acceptance and peace

  • my adventures this week… work and preparing to attend BlackBEAT with Master.

  • Becoming well read… I am reading a historical romance series by Diana Gabaldon. The current book in the series is called Dragonfly in Amber.  Listening to a book on podcast about metahumans…I love science fiction

  • i manifest and co-create… time for everyone…not sure how to do that…LOL

  • Listening to the Melody… of Madea’s Family Reunion…great soundtrack for this movie

  • One of my favorite things… is to just laugh out loud

  • further plans for this week…getting prepared BlackBEAT

  • Still….life (share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

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    Ted Talks: Mary Roach: 10 things you didn’t know about orgasm

    7 08 2009

    Very very strange.  Thought this would fit in here though.  Enjoy.

    MV





    Book of Days 8/4/09

    5 08 2009

    Since I was spending time being with Master early this week I am posting my book of days today.  Here’s the link to the original blog if you are interested in starting your own book of days or looking for great service tips.

    • Outside my windowor outside the hotel window is a fantastic view of the Atlantic Ocean.  What a spectacular sight for a water sign.

    • my thoughts…are peaceful

    • Today’s Quote…Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your paths

    • i am thankful for…being able to forgive and being forgiven

    • From my service training… I am learning about the act and purpose of serving.

    • From the kitchen… I am learning how to cook for less people, with less money, in a less processed way

    • i am wearing…nothing…enjoying the freedom of being naked

    • i am creating… I am creating myself with acceptance and peace

    • my adventures this week… were many and eventful.  I spent time with Master serving him and his friends, being the hostess at an event, being tied up by Master and playing in the rain with Master 🙂

    • Becoming well read… I am reading a historical romance series by Diana Gabaldon. The current book in the series is called Dragonfly in Amber.  Listening to a podcast called TWIL (This week in Law). 

    • i manifest and co-create… speak good and positive thoughts into existence.  I pray for peace and acceptance and clarity.

    • Todays Melody… the quiet of my inner voices

    • One of my favorite things… is to look at my children and appreciate the growth and changes in them.

    • further plans for this week…going to go see GI Joe with my boys this weekend and maybe hang out at the shore.

    • Still….life (share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

    Sunrise-Over-the-Atlantic-Myrtle-Beach-South-C

    This is a picture of Myrtle Beach, SC where Master and i played in the rain and waves this weekend.

     





    Vacationing with My esclave

    3 08 2009

    Will post more later. Sorry for the lack of a post today.








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