Author Archives: esclave

How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?

I thought this post would be a deviation from the normal tone of my “How Not to Negotiate” posts but I think it fits.  So often many come in to this lifestyle wondering how to find the One for them or asking what qualifications a Dominant would need to have for them.   So manyContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate: How do I find the One for me?”

How Not to Negotiate – “I trust you Completely”

This is something that I have said to Master often and I have heard people say.  I think we say it but don’t truly mean.  So I am going to explore the issue of trusting really in someone. One of the things that I love about Sir is his impulsiveness.  There have been several timesContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate – “I trust you Completely””

How Not to Negotiate – “I desire to be your slave”

So when I started in this lifestyle I knew nothing about labels all I knew was that I desired to be with someone that I can give over everything too.  I often say that I have no middle ground it is either all or nothing with me.  So, hey, I found these people with menContinue reading “How Not to Negotiate – “I desire to be your slave””

How Not to Negotiate – I am Poly

So in this post I am going to try and tackle polyarmory.  This will be how my perspective has changed from my beginning to now. So poly for me in this lifestyle took sometime for me to understand exactly what poly was.  I had no problem with it as I thought “wow this is great,Continue reading “How Not to Negotiate – I am Poly”

How NOT to negotiate – “I need to be Hurt”

A tongue in cheek perspective of my learnings as a slave in this style of my life. So here is my first post in my new blog spot.  They will not be in any sort of order just random things that I have learned in my journey of being a slave to Master Void andContinue reading “How NOT to negotiate – “I need to be Hurt””