How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship

I am going to attempt to write this and hopefully it won’t come across as sounding full of regret. When I met Master I was in a relationship with someone who was on the other side of US in the Pacific Northwest.  This relationship was really hard as I am the type of person whoContinue reading “How not to negotiate: I will not be in a long distance relationship”

LeatherFET or How to Fail at Organizing a Community Uniting Event.

What I write today is simply an opinion, my opinion.  I derived my opinion from my experiences in the local community.  I welcome all feed back and critiques. LeatherFET was a fascinating event concept. Unite both the leather communities and the fetish communities for a party that would rock Charlotte all weekend.  Have good history and education track. Invite JohnContinue reading “LeatherFET or How to Fail at Organizing a Community Uniting Event.”

Kinky Steampunk Death-Ray Vibrators from the Sky!

Ok, so steampunk amuses me. I like the idea of gears and steam and oil. The look of bronze and brass polished and shining. So when I stumbled across Lady Clankington’s Cabinet of Carnal Curiosities, I was very much interested. I was expecting the normal level of  build quality.  Something like this. Sadly, the picturesContinue reading “Kinky Steampunk Death-Ray Vibrators from the Sky!”