In Hotlanta there is a wonderful place called 1763. From what I hear it is a great place for Lifestylers to go and have our kind of fun. I have not yet had a chance to check it out, but soon my esclave will be here and we can go there. They offer either aContinue reading “1763 – A Decadent Address”
Monthly Archives: June 2008
Congradulations to NCMaster
A dear friend of mine won the prestigious Jack Stice Award at this year’s SouthEast Leatherfest. NCMaster has been an upstanding member of the local community and a dear personal friend. Congratulations. No one deserves it more. MV
Reactance – Pt. 1
A friend was talking to me about reactance. I didn’t quite understand what she was talking to me about and it takes a couple of days for things to sink in fully and become relatable to me. So it has been sitting in the back of my mind for a few days now. According to one ofContinue reading “Reactance – Pt. 1”
Habits
In our Lifestyle, we all get used to certain things. We name these things “Rituals”. We treat them as sacred and follow them almost religiously. They are unique to each relationship. Even in a poly situation, the rituals may not be shared. Tonight, esclave and I are unable to share one of our rituals. HerContinue reading “Habits”
Jamaica Does BDSM
I found an article today from a Jamaican news site discussing BDSM. I find the perspective interesting (the author calls BDSM “Kinky sex”, which I would argue with. I think that BDSM is one type of kinky sex, there are others). The term BDSM describes the activities between consenting partners that contain sadistic and masochisticContinue reading “Jamaica Does BDSM”
Too Damn Hot
It is hot, too damn hot. I am miserable. The only chance of respite is a decent margarita. Here is my recipe for one: 1) 3 oz of Reposito Tequila (I use 1800) 2) 1 oz of Cointreau. 3) juice from 1 lime. 4) simple syrup to taste. Shake well, serve in a chilled, saltedContinue reading “Too Damn Hot”
