Early Kinky Christmas

Incase you haven’t heard, you need to get you butt over to FetLife, sit on John Baku’s lap (AKA Kinky Claus) and tell him what you want. Last year, the FetLife team gave away 6 packages worth over $500 each.  This year, they are giving away much, much more. I have signed up for a few things, I hope I win, so has esclave.  I am eagerly awaiting the end of the contest, there are many many good things there.

MV

Service Book of Days – 12/7/09

  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  is a cold and chilly evening but very refreshing after the stuffiness of being inside.  Mmmmm I love the crispness in the air.
  • my thoughts…are pensive.  I crashed harder than usual from being with Master and I am not sure why.  I think it is the separation that is finally getting to me.  I know my relationship with Master is secure.  I just am so ready to be with him.
  • Today’s Quote… Love is everything it’s cracked up to be…It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.    Erica Jong, O Magazine, February 2004

    I know I had this quote for last week but I am still feeling it.  For myself, in the past, if stuff got too hard for me emotionally or called for me to open up more than was comfortable for me, I would have bolted or shut myself off.  I was trying to preserve and protect myself but in reality I was putting myself in a cage.

    Love is really worth fighting for not just for the other person but for myself.  Freedom of expression and self…authentic life, as someone told me

  • i am thankful for…each and everyday.
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) My daughter is teaching me how to crochet.    I made my first chain and half a scarf.
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  I made baked chicken with ginger, cheddar cheese cornbread and mixed vegetables.
  • i am wearing…my workout clothes and I had a chance to go to the gym after work.  Doing two times a day.
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;)  peace and tranquility and the feeling of the season for my children.  Joyous and celebratory and thankful.
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  No adventures this week.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  I am still reading Anneke Jacobs book “As She’s told”.
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) Peace and tranquility in my house and with my children.
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) So while trying to find the song that Master and I danced to, I came across this song by Atlantic Star.  Man I love the music from this area.

  • One of my favorite things..is to read a good book.
  • further plans for this week…Continuing to fix the house to sell.
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

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Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention my blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂

I Too Are An Internets Dominate

Ok, this shouldn’t take too long.  Pay attention. There will be a quiz at the end.

I see a fairly common statement made by D-types out on the internets, and I feel compelled to say something. If you have made this mistake, please take note of what I am about to tell you and correct yourself in the future.  It is important.  And this has to be stopped before someone gets hurt. Probably you if you do this.

I see people saying the following all across the internets:

I am a dominate with years of experience.

No. Your You’re not.  If you had years of experience, you would know that what you are is a Dominant. Not dominate. Dominate is what you do, Dominant is what you are.

Continue reading “I Too Are An Internets Dominate”

Service Book of Days 11/30/09

  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  of the van as I was turning into the complex, I saw a fox.  It was absolutely beautiful.
  • my thoughts…happy thoughts.  I spent a wonderfully long weekend with my family and Master.  It was wonderful.
  • Today’s Quote… Love is everything it’s cracked up to be…It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.    Erica Jong, O Magazine, February 2004When you find someone that you can love doing giving everything but your all to it cheats yourself.  This is how I feel.  I love Master much and not being fully committed to U/us does the love I have for him a disservice.
  • i am thankful for…each and everyday.
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) My daughter is teaching me how to crochet.  J
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  I stuffed the phylo cups with strawberries and topped with whip cream.  It was a nice little refreshing bite with all of the heavy pies and cakes.
  • i am wearing…my workout clothes and I had a chance to go to the gym after work.  Doing two times a day.
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;)  peace and tranquility
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  No adventures this week.  Just basking in the afterglow of being around Master and my family.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  I am still reading Anneke Jacobs book “As She’s told”.  I am also learning about totems.  Looking to see which one would be for me.  Master thinks it is the dog and I agree with that.  After researching out, the dog has been very prominent in my life.  Also the duck. 🙂
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) Peace and tranquility in my house and with my children.
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) Master and I danced to a great slow song.  I can’ t remember the name of the song…grrr but I am determined to find it…LOL
  • One of my favorite things..is to watch a movie that is so good it makes you talk to the screen…lol
  • further plans for this week…Continuing to fix the house to sell.
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

The Hawk is one of Master’s totem:  Hawk teaches us to scope out the situation and focus on our talents, trying to draw them out. Hawk learns to see the big picture in order to understand the past, present, and future. Hawk asks us to be observant of surroundings so we won’t get distracted from our path by others. It also reminds us not to get caught up in minor annoyances so we can maintain our inner balance.  (http://www.animaltotem.com/store.html?wc=64)

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Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention my blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   http://servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂

Dominatrix on the Move

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A dominatrix in Germany has come up with an interesting new twist on the pro-Domme game.  An entire dominatrix studio in a van.  While I cannot read German, the site looks very interesting (google translation here). Apparently a car dealership specializing in customized vans. Normally the price on one of these vehicles runs about $44,000, but got it almost half off ($24000 US).

Fully outfitted by a local leather shop, it includes all the Domina on the move needs.  Whips, crops, chains and even a cage.

If your over there, you might want to check it out.  It looks pretty hard to miss.

MV