In my previous post about protocols, I discussed some of my philosophy about protocols. I talked about some of the things to not do when your devising them. But how do I go about creating the protocols that I use? What goes into making a good protocol? Personally I think that developing a protocol shouldContinue reading “Protocols pt 2”
Category Archives: Techniques
BZ Conference – a good resource for information on BDSM, M/s or D/s
BZ Conference Workshop Update I have found this workshop to be a great resource of information. It is free and easy talk with people with varied experience in the lifestyle. If you are looking for a place to ask your questions or find some answers…click on the link in the ad BZ ConferenceContinue reading “BZ Conference – a good resource for information on BDSM, M/s or D/s”
Protocols pt. 1
I am a big fan of protocols in the lifestyle. I believe that protocols define a set of behaviors in a given situation. Protocols make the Dominant’s and submissive’s roles easier to manage and provide defined expectations for both roles. If I do not lay out clear instructions and directions for how my slave isContinue reading “Protocols pt. 1”
Nice how to Video for the Weekend.
The Clothes Pins Game.
Came up an interesting game to play with esclave, and I thought I would share. Start with a large quantity of clothes pins (depends on your sub, I recommend at least 50 to start). The dominant records a number and seals it in an envelope. The number should be less than the number of clothesContinue reading “The Clothes Pins Game.”
Don’t Stop the Music
Scene music is very important for setting the tone and mood of a scene. It can be very evocative, causing the bottom to go where you want them to go. Personally, I find that using music with words can distract the bottom and make them less connected to the scene. But that may be whatContinue reading “Don’t Stop the Music”
The House of Void 