Something for your weekend

I know this is a bit of short notice but if you are in the NY/NJ area and have time Jay Wiseman will be giving two classes at the Crawlspace in Montclair, NJ on 4/11. He will be talking about conflict resolution and given a demonstration on elastic predicament bondage. This was copied from theContinue reading “Something for your weekend”

BDSM 101: Your First Club Event

I wrote previously about going to your first munch. There are other types of BDSM events as well. The next one I want to look at is the Club Event. BDSM clubs meet in various hotel rooms, leather bars and whatnot across the country. They are more focused on education than your average munch group.Continue reading “BDSM 101: Your First Club Event”

Organizational Resources

I am taking a page from Master and passing along some of the resources I use to help. Part of my service to Sir is as an administrative assistant so to speak.  I schedule appointments on his calendar, set up reminder notices for these appointments.  Look up information on various topics and sometimes type upContinue reading “Organizational Resources”

A Formal Dinner Service

This past January I got a chance to serve a formal dinner to Sir. This I must say is becoming a passion of mine.  There are some many intricate parts to serving a formal dinner.  It is nothing like what I serve to my children.  When I serve my children it is usually with meContinue reading “A Formal Dinner Service”

BDSM 101: Collaring and Collaring Ceremonies

I posted a few weeks ago about the ceremony that my esclave and I went through that formally acknowledged our relationship. In the lifestyle we call this a collaring ceremony. The collar is a physical representation of the spiritual bond between a Dominant and his submissive. A collaring ceremony is akin to a wedding inContinue reading “BDSM 101: Collaring and Collaring Ceremonies”

BDSM 101: Household Task Management

One of the responsibilities of a dominant is to keep his (or her) household running smoothly.  There are many tricks to doing this, but I have found a nice (and free) online service called Remember the Milk. To say that it is just another online todo list would be an understatement of its capabilities.  WhileContinue reading “BDSM 101: Household Task Management”