“Playing”

The LA times has an interesting article on serious literature with a kinky bent. Now, when whatever suits your fancy is easily found online, exploring intense or unusual sexuality has become the purview of commercial and even highbrow literary writers too. Tom Wolfe indulgently explored coed hookup culture in “I Am Charlotte Simmons.” Walter Mosley’sContinue reading ““Playing””

Dark Odyssey

Sorry, I haven’t been posting recently as regularly as I normally do. I will try to keep the blog updated more regularly. That said, a lot of things have been beckoning my attention recently. An interesting one is an event in Maryland called Dark Odessey. Dark Odyssey produces three events a year: Winter Fire, LeatherContinue reading “Dark Odyssey”

Incredible Gear

I am always looking for some new and interesting gear for BDSM activities. While perusing Thndrshark’s website the other day, I came across some truly amazing bondage gear. Martin’s rigid cuffs are exactly that. Extremely solid, durable, aluminum shackles with a very modern look. Many designs are linked by thick solid metal as well. TheseContinue reading “Incredible Gear”

Another Sad Death Due to Unsafe BDSM Practices

I have always tried to espouse safety when partaking S&M behavior.  No matter how much pleasure we receive from an act, we must stop before we harm the ones we love or ourselves. We have too may people depending upon ourselves. This brings us to the latest tale of a father who died from sadomasochisticContinue reading “Another Sad Death Due to Unsafe BDSM Practices”