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Polyamory May Have Benefits

I found this article while surfing today. Seems that Poly may have benefits for the male in the relationship: Research suggests that men from polygamist cultures live 12 per cent longer than those who limit their affections to one woman at a time. It is thought men benefit from having a fuss made over themContinue reading “Polyamory May Have Benefits”

Placate

I learned a new word while spending time with Sir this past week. Placate: to appease or pacify, esp. by concessions or conciliatory gestures. Sir and i were at the AfterGlow event that just closed our experience at BlackBEAT quite nicely. Sir had mentioned that we would stay for a collaring ceremony which I wasContinue reading “Placate”

BlackBEAT 08 Keynote by Mistress Max Rulz

At BlackBEAT this year we had an amazing keynote address from Mistress Max Rulz. I am reposting it here with permission in its entirety. You can read more about her here. I have been informed this link was no longer current. The answer to the question can we all just get along? Is no! MostContinue reading “BlackBEAT 08 Keynote by Mistress Max Rulz”

Where are the Het BDSM Bars?

I ran across this article in the New York Blade Online, discussing the leather subculture. I found an interesting part where it speaks about why there are no Het Leather Bars. Why has the leather scene long been considered a sub-culture of the gay community? In every large city gay men in their leather regaliaContinue reading “Where are the Het BDSM Bars?”

Family Reunion

Sir and I are back from attending my second and his fifth BlackBEAT. This was our first as a couple and it was wonderful. We got there very early Thursday morning (2:30am) and Sir was exhausted. Such an awesome man he is, drove all the way from his home to the event and back again (7Continue reading “Family Reunion”

Back from BlackBEAT and Some Thoughts

My girl and myself returned home from BlackBEAT yesterday, and spent some time together decompressing. We left late Sunday, after delaying our departure to witness a beautiful collaring ceremony. It is good to see such things, if you get a chance to witness one, I reccomend that you do. After returning from this conference, IContinue reading “Back from BlackBEAT and Some Thoughts”