Foundations in Mastery

This weekend I am heading to an interesting event. Catherine Gross, a highly respected Lifestyler, Mistress and educator, is debuting her new Foundations in Mastery class. I have sent my girl to her Servants Retreat (I) back in January, and it was very much appreciated by her. I sent esclave to the class mainly becauseContinue reading “Foundations in Mastery”

Green Sex Toys?

I subscribe to Playboy, and while I like the photos, I enjoy reading the Playboy Advisor column most of all (followed closely by the jokes page). This month someone asked about green sex toys. In the past, I wrote about vegan sex aids (remember Vegan Condoms? anyone?), so I thought you guys might like toContinue reading “Green Sex Toys?”

BDSM 101: Collaring and Collaring Ceremonies

I posted a few weeks ago about the ceremony that my esclave and I went through that formally acknowledged our relationship. In the lifestyle we call this a collaring ceremony. The collar is a physical representation of the spiritual bond between a Dominant and his submissive. A collaring ceremony is akin to a wedding inContinue reading “BDSM 101: Collaring and Collaring Ceremonies”

Review: the ENSO by Orpheus

Life has conspired to prevent me from writing this review, but I feel that I owe this author a fair hearing on my blog (and perhaps a bit of publicity would not hurt either). Orpheus Black is a Dominant from the LA (California) area, known for exciting scenes and creative fireplay. He has been aContinue reading “Review: the ENSO by Orpheus”

Japanese Prostitutes Having a Hard Time Too, In This Economy

I like learning new things.  Today I learned a bit about fuzoku gals, Japanese prostitutes working in sex shops.  The Tokyo Reporter gives us the details: “Bosses of sex shops are under a lot of stress these days,” journalist Yukio Murakami tells Nikkan Gendai. “The number of customers has been plummeting, and the shop managersContinue reading “Japanese Prostitutes Having a Hard Time Too, In This Economy”

New Novel Release

Being an active member of the S&M community, I sometimes have interesting things find their way into my inbox.  Today I found this: I have a new novel out, and this is the website to purchase it from: Kemi-Ka The novel is entitled, “Chronicles of the Nubian Underworld: The Awakening” E-book, paperback, and hardcover versionsContinue reading “New Novel Release”