Where are the Het BDSM Bars?

I ran across this article in the New York Blade Online, discussing the leather subculture.  I found an interesting part where it speaks about why there are no Het Leather Bars. Why has the leather scene long been considered a sub-culture of the gay community? In every large city gay men in their leather regaliaContinue reading “Where are the Het BDSM Bars?”

Family Reunion

Sir and I are back from attending my second and his fifth BlackBEAT.  This was our first as a couple and it was wonderful.  We got there very early Thursday morning (2:30am) and Sir was exhausted.  Such an awesome man he is, drove all the way from his home to the event and back again (7Continue reading “Family Reunion”

Back from BlackBEAT and Some Thoughts

My girl and myself returned home from BlackBEAT yesterday, and spent some time together decompressing.  We left late Sunday, after delaying our departure to witness a beautiful collaring ceremony. It is good to see such things, if you get a chance to witness one, I reccomend that you do. After returning from this conference, IContinue reading “Back from BlackBEAT and Some Thoughts”

Greetings from BlackBEAT ’08

I arrived late last night at the hotel and got myself and esclave checked in.  It was nice to be with her and this was the longest we have been in a car together since we met. We spend the long drive here listening to John Hodgeman and getting used to each other again.  ItContinue reading “Greetings from BlackBEAT ’08”

Tampa Bay Gets Its Freak On

I found an interesting article on the happenings in Tampa. Seems more fetish than straight bdsm, but there is an interesting tidbit about a BDSM themed wedding at Fetishcon.  Should be an interesting time. From the multitudes in black to the incessant meowing by 35-year-old overweight men, I can definitely say this past weekend ranksContinue reading “Tampa Bay Gets Its Freak On”