Service Book of Days 7/18/11

 

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Today was a really good day.  I think this move has helped me put everything in perspective.  Work doesn’t stress me  out and actually I feel like I am better at my job now that I have made the decision to leave…lol

I realize stuff with us won’t be easy but I also know without a doubt that they won’t be hopelessly hard either.

I am learning to not be passive aggressive about things when I don’t get my way.  To really take a Zen approach about things.

I am really thankful for this opportunity and for sushi.  I love really good sushi.

Tonight I am wearing a white tank top and some comfy pants

You know this distance between Master and i have not been easy.   We both cope.  For me waking up alone and going to sleep without him next to me just makes these coping things feel useless.

I wrote these words to Master in the petition I gave to me him to be his slave:

Your very breath soothes my soul.

Your presence calms and settles me.

My heart is safe in your hands.

I kneel knowing that with you I can stand.   (Author, MV’s esclave, 2007)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Service Book of Days 7/11/11

Today is a lucky day. 7/11/11.  I should have played the pick it…lol

It was a typical summer day here.  Muggy and hot with a big chance of rain.  Typical for my place of residence.

I came home and put on a purple tank top with blue jean shorts and some socks for my feet. 🙂  I love having comfy fuzzy sock on my feet at all times.  Comfy clothes on a hot day.

Got a chance to listen to some great workout music today.  Glad I am able to resume my workouts as my back is feeling a ton better.  With everything going on with the house and the move I had to cut down on my workouts and my back problems were exasperated because of it.

With the move I am finding the my organizational skills are coming into play big time.  I am also learning to balance the pressures of everything in a way that I don’t drive everyone away.  Keeping everything in perspective and realizing that i cant change things to fit my deadlines helps.

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Dependence – 7/4/11

Fireworks on the Fourth of July
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Today is the fourth of July and as my friend “hisnamaste” has said it is a day to celebrate our dependence in our slavery…yay

This day is marked as a day in the U.S. when the declaration of independence was adopted. Wanna read it…click the link:

http://www.archives.gov/exhibits/charters/declaration.html

dependence sometimes US, dependance [dɪˈpɛndəns]

n

1. the state or fact of being dependent, esp for support or help
2. reliance; trust; confidence
3. Rare an object or person relied upon
I am proud to say that I am dependent on my Master.  I thrive within this dependence and am happier for it.  I am glad that my Master encourages my dependence.   For me it is added security and deepens our exchange.  The more dependent I am on him the more he is able to Master me.

Hojojutsu

Hojojutsu is the art and science of Japanese prisoner bondage.  I would suggest you look into it if you like good rope bondage.

Enjoy the Video!

MV

Service Book of Days 6/27/11

For once in my life I have someone who needs me by Stevie Wonder.

I was looking at Shrek and this was the ending song.   Yes  I like Shrek.  I am a kid at heart and truthfully who doesn’t want a fairy tale in their life.  Although I think fairy tales can be related to life and how you handle your issues.  Not every problem that happens in your life is the end of your life.  So just like the fairy tale you look for a solution not just a temporary one but one that is right for your life.

In Shrek3…Shrek made a mistake and gave up his life for one night of freedom and thought that a kiss would fix everything once he realized what he had done.  He forgot that the lesson wasn’t just about the kiss but learning again what that kiss really meant to him and what he lost by not looking any further than the kiss.

For once I can touch what my heart has dreamed of…this is my happy ending.

These dreams are going to be very stressful with moving and packing and leaving my comfort zone.

My lessons will be constantly on relaxing and taking lots of deep breaths.

I believe everything will work out the way it supposed to be.

But darn it is a freaking lot that needs to be done.

I know I am equipped and I can do it.  I have a plan and I have support.

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We laugh a lot. That’s for sure. Sure beats the alternative, doesn’t it?    Betty White, Mark Twain Prize, 2010

This is a falling star…don’t forget to make a wish

(Project 365 Day 311) I just watched Stardust tonight, and my reaction was, "Wow! They actually managed to make a movie based on a Neil Gaiman book that feels like a Neil Gaiman book!" The fairy-tale-for-adults feel of the book ...

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M/s Thoughts

Soon my slave will be moving in. She is undergoing a lot more changes in her life than I am.  For me, all I have to deal with is 3 people in my house 24/7. For her, she has to leave the home she bought. Pack all of her belongings that she wishes to keep. Throw away the stuff she doesn’t. Quit her job. Get a moving truck. Move. Unpack. Settle herself and her children in. Do what I need to be done. Deal with her children’s issues with the move. Find a new job.

Yep, sometimes it is good to be the Master. But part of my role is to understand all of this. Do what I can to help with the transitions. Try to make the move easier. Buy one or two items that we need to make their life here easier.

Be a rock for her to lean on. Her shelter from the storms. And to not be another problem for her to deal with. So while I could ask her to do things for me (I come up with small task all the time, it helps for slaves to have something to do. It makes them feel useful), I hold back. I do more for myself.  I do not want to overburden my slave.

After all, I will have decades to overburden her once she arrives.

MV