Body Harness

Sir was surfing one of his many favorite web sites, YouTube, and came across this video from TwistedMonk on how to do a body harness.  I have been tied up one time and didn’t really like it much.  But looking at this video, I think i want to try it again. The body harness looked really sexy and comfortable.  I pictured Sir putting me in this body harness as my outfit for playtime at a dungeon or just before our private playtime in the chains.

Hope you enjoy the video and if you would like, leave a comment to let me know your thoughts.


Super Tuesday

Well, I am not located in one of the Super Tuesday states, but if you are: Please get out and vote.  Let your voice make a difference.

Er ummm… Pink?!?

Pink suede flogger

Oh my. The things you do find on the net. Pink isn’t exactly my style. Still it is only about at $20.00 bid, so it may be a good deal. Have to have it shipped from Vancouver though.

So all you subbies with nice femme dommes, here is something that you can help them accessorize their outfits.

Anybody out there have anything like this in their toybag? (Personally I am more fond of purple.)

Don’t Stop the Music

Scene music is very important for setting the tone and mood of a scene. It can be very evocative, causing the bottom to go where you want them to go. Personally, I find that using music with words can distract the bottom and make them less connected to the scene. But that may be what I want to do with them. But sometimes the lyrics take the one you are with down a path they might not have expected .

Pick something you like, something with a good beat (will help you keep the flogging at a steady pace, which will help your bottom transition to subspace). Make sure that you are familiar with the music though, if you are listening to a cd/mp3 for the first time, you might be hesitant or erratic in your play. Relax. Have fun.

If you want a unique experience with scene music (and probably some of the coolest I have ever heard), then you have to check out the dungeon at BlackBEAT.

Here are some of my favorites:

Music Comments
Soundtrack to Aliens Evokes fear, spooky and eerie
Soundtrack to Warcraft Good beat, easy to play with, a bit different
NIN: Pretty Hate Machine Primal beat, sweet music
Anything by Enigma Traditional in most dungeons but still good.
Anything by Enya More standard scene music

What are your favorites? Post below and let me know.

NCMaster’s Livejournal

A dear friend of mine (and basically the man I call my mentor in the Lifestyle) keeps a livejournal page (ok I just found out about it). I thought I would share it with you. He has some good things to say about the Lifestyle and life in general. So I invite you to spend some time with my friend.

NCMaster’s Journal

goodness gracious, great balls of fire

Sir was surfing YouTube and came across this very interesting video on how to make handheld balls of fire. A gentle word of caution and advice to newbies and fire enthusiasts alike…this is a video…research it out before trying it and please be careful.



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