Master Void and esclave Presents: Mastering a Long Distance Relationship

30 03 2011

esclave and I presented our Mastering a Long Distance Relationship presentation last night at the MBZ conference..  A lot of folks wondered where they could get the slides that I used. So I offered to put them up here, at House of Void. So, click, download Mastering A Long Distance Relationship and enjoy!

MV

Oh, and if you have never been to the MBZ conferee, I highly recommend it. It is a free online conference hosted every week by Master Zeus on Tuesday and Thursday nights at nine pm eastern.





Service Book of Days 3/28/11

28 03 2011

Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?) is a cold night.  I have to say I am trying to find the joy in this cold but it is tiring.  Thank goodness I can see the sun everyday.

my thoughts… are on the upcoming move.  Still a ton of things to do but finally my porch is fixed…yay

Today’s Quote:

It is possible to store the mind with a million facts and still be entirely uneducated.

Alec Bourne

This quote made me think of my Master.  He knows a lot of stuff about a lot of stuff but the one thing that I admire about him is that he never uses his knowledge to make others feel less knowledgeable.  I love the fact that he is always learning and willing to be taught.   He is not one of those “I know everything so don’t need to be told” types.  I love his humility.

i am thankful for…peace of mind

From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) Nothing new at the moment

From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  helping my kids feed themselves.

i am wearing…blue jean shirt and blue sparkly jeans.  Yes I love sparkly and shiney things 😀

i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;) Nothing new at the moment

my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  spring cleaning inside the house.  I am tired of seeing grey

Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?) I am listening to an audible scifi book Master recommended.  “Pandora’s Star”, Peter F. Hamilton

i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week)  a happy place within my slavery.

Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…)  I downloaded my Rhapsody playlist on my Ipod and realized that I have 3 different songs titled “Angel”….lol  I love each of them.  “Angel” by Anita Baker, “Angel” by Chaka Khan, and “Angel” by Angela Winbush.

My favorite song today is “I’m So In To You” by Peabo Bryson 😀

One of my favorite things…is being able to work out pain free.  I just didn’t realize how much of a luxury that is until I felt the pain from sciatica

further plans for this week…House cleaning and seeing my friend for brunch.  I love girly things like that.  When I move with Master I would love to have a “tea” day  for the girls.  We can drink different types of teas, have little snacky things and just get to know each other more in a totally comfortable setting.

Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)  Photo used with permission from Master.

I went to visit my Master this past weekend.  My greeting from him was nipple torture…LOL  and then rope 😀 and more nipple torture with blood staining my white shirt…mmmmmm

Here is one of my favorite pics from my time with Master:  I call it homecoming as I felt like this trip was truly me being at home.

Master is a really good photographer.  I love the images he creates.

Want to start something different.  Here are the directions:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention the blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂





Sex Ed Gets Serious at Northwestern Universtity

16 03 2011

I thought I would share this with you in case you hadn’t heard. NorthWestern University in Evanston Illinois apparently has a “Human Sexuality” course well worth attending.  While most teachers are content to simply discuss sex or even showing a few pictures of human anatomy. 600 students stayed after the main class for an optional, non-credit lab where members of the local BDSM community discussed their practices.

 

At the end, one of the presenters stripped down and demonstrated how to bring a woman to an orgasm after watching what was apparently one of the standard sanitary videos.To read more about this article, click here.

I wish they had classes like that when I was in school.

MV

 





Service Book of Days 3/14/11

14 03 2011

Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?) is a sunny day.

 

 

my thoughts… are on so many things.  I can truly appreciate the need for having a mentor.

 

Today’s Quote: Take a music bath once or twice a week for a few seasons, and you will find that it is to the soul what the water bath is to the body.

Oliver Wendell Holmes
US author & physician (1809 – 1894)

 

 

i am thankful for…peace of mind

 

 

From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) Nothing new at the moment

 

 

From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  smaller portion sizes, delicious tasting nutritious food.

 

 

i am wearing…black skinny jeans and blue jean shirt

 

 

i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;) Nothing new at the moment

 

 

my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  talking with contractors, finding a way to send my daughter to boarding school, and other stuff

 

 

Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?) No books this week.

 

i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week)  non-stressful space

 

 

Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) No melodies today

 

One of my favorite things…is seeing the changes in my body due to my workouts.  I love how physically fit I am becoming

 

 

further plans for this week…going to see Master this weekend. yay

 

 

Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)  Photo used with permission from:

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.5/

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=4568840

 

 

 

 

 

Want to start something different.  Here are the directions:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention the blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂

 





Another S&M Themed Video

11 03 2011

Enjoy!

MV





Consistency

9 03 2011

Consistency. That is a word that is often used in our community, but do we really understand what it means?  It doesn’t mean being strict. It doesn’t mean being boring or being repetitive. What it means is that you are the same now as when you began the relationship. It doesn’t mean your interests can’t change.  It doesn’t mean that you don’t grow as an individual. It does mean you are rational in your progress as a person. The growth and changes are rational. That your slave can see where you were and where you are, and that the core is there.

One example from my relationship is how I manage the tasks I give my girl.  I tell her to do things, and then I watch.  I may not pay attention every day, but I know what I have asked her to do and after the time together she does too. I monitor things, and watch and while I may not comment every day, I will eventually. She knows this. This is how I have been from day one.  Is this the right thing for your relationship? Maybe yes, maybe no, but it works for ours. If she doesn’t do what she is supposed to, she knows I will hang her by her actions. Or will reward her as well.

So I am consistent. I have done this since day one. I may not be consistent as you define it, but I am consistent in a way she understand.

How do you define consistency in your relationships?

MV





Service Book of Days 3/7/11

7 03 2011

Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?) is a brisk night.  Still feel the cold of winter but with a hint of spring.

 

 

my thoughts… are on the things that I have done to move to be with Master.  There was so many thing sthat had to be done before I could move (house, kids, finances) that now that they are almost completed I feel anxious and nervous to the point of being sick.

 

I think it is extreme fear and the realization that there are no more obstacles and nothing else to hide behind.

 

Today’s Quote: I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing.

Agatha Christie
English mystery author (1890 – 1976)

 

 

i am thankful for…the sun and feeling the warmth and rebirth.

 

 

From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) learning more about the leather lifestyle and realizing that I do know a lot of stuff that still feels abstract…

 

 

From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  cooking for less people constructively.

 

 

i am wearing…black pants and black turtle neck

 

 

i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;) Nothing new at the moment

 

 

my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  having my front porch finally fixed…eeek

 

 

Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?) No books this week.

 

i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week)  Certainty and assuredness…confidence and peace.

 

 

Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) No melodies today

 

 

The worst thing in the world….(what is one thing you would not want to see or do, tv)  is to see Prince songs being sung on Glee…shudders…I think of elevator music

 

 

One of my favorite things…is being able to do nothing but relax

 

 

further plans for this week…Cleaning my backyard.  It’s just something good about having things in order.   I love to have a clean house and orderly surroundings

 

 

Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)  Photo used with permission from:

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=2295793

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.5/

 

Want to start something different.  Here are the directions:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention the blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!   www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. 🙂

 








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