FetLife and Chat: Feeling Betrayed

So ever since James announced chat coming to FetLife I’ve felt betrayed. I recall vividly John Baku saying that Chat would not come to FetLife. That there would never be a way to show who is online. This was a different experience than other sites. A fun place to get your kink on. A placeContinue reading “FetLife and Chat: Feeling Betrayed”

Let’s Talk About Sex (and BDSM)

I’m seeing something today that I find interesting. More and more I am seeing new people into the scene looking for sex. Pain and Sex. Control and Sex. Spankings and Sex. Bondage and Sex. Very different from the world I came of age in. When I started out, I was directed to improve myself. LearnContinue reading “Let’s Talk About Sex (and BDSM)”

Reflections on the Leather History Conference

I thought I would make it a trifecta of articles on the Conference I attended this weekend. I must say  that over all, I really enjoyed the conference. It was good to see my friends again, some of whom I haven’t seen in years. The vendors had an excellent selection of products. I missed outContinue reading “Reflections on the Leather History Conference”