My Master has done an excellent job of portraying his thinking on how and what protocols are for His house. I would like to relate how these protocols affect me. This definition of a protocols was taken from a tech website but I somehow feel that it applies, the bolded portions are my words): Protocols are anContinue reading “Protocols from a slave’s view”
Category Archives: Techniques
BDSM Floggin How-To Video
I found it interesting. The guy has some good techniques (I can flog but I look more like a flailing monkey. It does work for my girl though). MV
Protocols Part 4: Developing Protocols for Groups
This is part of my protocol series, which can be found here, here, and here. I recently had to decide on a protocol for a group I hosted here at the House of Void. There was a diverse group, and I needed to come up with some simple rules of behavior. Fortunately, I had someContinue reading “Protocols Part 4: Developing Protocols for Groups”
Safety in BDSM Is Not Always Black and White
A post on one of the websites I frequent today spurred a thought on the issues of safety and BDSM. BDSM is a high risk activity, along the lines of hiking and camping, white water rafting, or even bungee jumping or parasailing. That said, I am more philosophically aligned with RACK not SSC. Each andContinue reading “Safety in BDSM Is Not Always Black and White”
Surrender and Obedience
Surrender: –verb (used without object) 6. to give oneself up, as into the power of another; submit or yield. Obedience: 1 a: an act or instance of obeying I am learning that my life with Sir is one of active surrender and obedience. My life as his slave is not passive on my part itContinue reading “Surrender and Obedience”
Mistakes, Learning, and the Art of BDSM
I was reminded today that the greatest opportunities we have is through failure. When we fail, there are always repercussions, but we know what we did wrong, and that will help us succeed in the future. Often we make the mistake of thinking the world will end when we fail. But to tell the truth,Continue reading “Mistakes, Learning, and the Art of BDSM”
