I was browsing across a conversation on FetLife which did not go the way the original poster (OP in Fet language) had anticipated. The content of the message isn’t important to what I have to say. What I have to say is this. When you have a thread that doesn’t go the way you want, you have two choices. You can accept it. Or you can rave like a maniac. Guess which he did? Guess how it turned out?
When you are a leader (and this “gentleman” was both a dominant and a leader of a TNG group), then you have to hold yourself accountable for your actions. You must think before you react.
And don’t be juvenile if you don’t always get what you want.
MV