This is part of my protocol series, which can be found here, here, and here. I recently had to decide on a protocol for a group I hosted here at the House of Void. There was a diverse group, and I needed to come up with some simple rules of behavior. Fortunately, I had someContinue reading “Protocols Part 4: Developing Protocols for Groups”
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Hopefully I Have Not Posted This Video Before
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I Feel Like a Video, You Feel Like a Video?
YouTube – Shibari Performance, BioBurlesque 2007.
Safety in BDSM Is Not Always Black and White
A post on one of the websites I frequent today spurred a thought on the issues of safety and BDSM. BDSM is a high risk activity, along the lines of hiking and camping, white water rafting, or even bungee jumping or parasailing. That said, I am more philosophically aligned with RACK not SSC. Each andContinue reading “Safety in BDSM Is Not Always Black and White”
Mistakes, Learning, and the Art of BDSM
I was reminded today that the greatest opportunities we have is through failure. When we fail, there are always repercussions, but we know what we did wrong, and that will help us succeed in the future. Often we make the mistake of thinking the world will end when we fail. But to tell the truth,Continue reading “Mistakes, Learning, and the Art of BDSM”
Event Security
I have something of a reputation involving security at BDSM events. I have served as the director of security for BlackBEAT the previous 2 years, and will be serving again this year. Recently I was asked to serve at a local event for CLOAK. This got me thinking about event security, and I thought IContinue reading “Event Security”
