Off topic: TED Talk

15 03 2012

I really want to share the story of the $8 Billion iPod with you.  Copyrights are important to me as a content creator (I do both photography and a couple of blogs), but some people take it too far.  And this is why.  I hope you will excuse me for sharing.

 

 

MV





The New But Not Improved FetLife Feed

25 05 2011

OK, I am giving my ideas about the FetLife feed on my own page.  I have made some changes to the graphics to protect the innocent. (As if any of my FetLife friends are innocent, LOL.) Before I launch into the negatives, lets talk about what they got right.

FetLife Feed, version 4The first thing that I like is that we now have continuous feed. That means that when you scroll down, you don’t have to click to continue.  That is neat and is a big improvement. Speeds up my perving of FetLife.

Status Bar Version 4I also like the change of placement for the upload links. They moved them underneath the status bar. Makes them more handy. More handy means more stuff uploaded.  Might be better if they were a little brighter, but overall they are an improvement over the old one off to the side.

The next thing I like, at least in theory (it is only available to premium paying members so I haven’t had a chance to try it out yet), is the gag feature. This allows you to put friends who overshare, or who wanted to follow you (but you didn’t care if you saw their stuff) in a kind of timeout, where you don’t see their stuff. You can also customize your feed where you may only want to see group activities, or you don’t want to see writings.  Again, this is a pay for play feature, so I have no real opinion on this.

SideBarNow where did they go wrong?  Well frankly this was the ugliest update that I have seen to date on their site.  Normally John Baku shows a great deal of care and love for a site design.  And I did see him try here.  But something went horribly wrong.  The layout of this design reminded me of a Visual Studio design, and that is no compliment.  I particularly do not like the layout of the sidebar, the font size is too small, particularly for us older members.  My eye sight isn’t what it used to be.

I also have a major functional issue with the new group listing to the side.  The groups you lead, as you will notice in the picture above are all nicely laid out, like the old feed was.  But now the groups you are a member of are all in a scroll bar.  Why John, why?  I am in soooo many groups.  They all do not all show up on one screen, and it is almost impossible to use on a mobile device.  I have noted a lot of complaints from Blackberry users in particular.

One more glaring mistake is the omission of the link to support FetLife.  For some reason, they have decided to replace that with links to services that only paying members can use. Instead of seeing a friendly message asking for a support, you get a “Fuck you you non-paying bastard” feel every time you click on gag, or one of the other symbols (like the @ symbol at the top).  John, please put back the nice message. Stop turning me off with those links.  I understand that FetLife needs to make a buck. Servers don’t run on free.  And John Baku and company need to pay rent, buy food and buy remote controlled cars. But seriously, you think that annoying your users is a good way to make that money? Stop it.

OK, those are my thoughts. But I would love to hear what you think. Let me know, in the comments.

MV

Update

James and John have sent me some feedback based on this article.

From James:

 @JamesGolick Tweet

@JamesGolick Tweet

@JamesGolick Tweet

My response was pretty simple to James. The continuous scrolling has to go.  I mean besides crippling groups on my home page, what if I want to read the stuff at the footer?  I have to go through how may hours/days worth of material? Or I have to leave the home feed.  Not a good solution.  Back to the drawing board with this one.  I suggested that they could replace the click (or at least add to it) a mouse over to the area you used to click, and that would solve the issue for everyone.  the feed wouldn’t be continuous, but it would be usable.

From John I received this message:

@JohnBaku Tweet

I suspect that that he may have been referring to the “What’s popular” feed that launched this week. Meh, not that impressed.  Still don’t see the need to screw with people’s feeds like they did to add it.  Could have easily been added as another tab.

And the tech support thread has been screaming with people having issues with the new feed.  Too much Java script for older machines and buggy code for others (probably more to do with mobile devices).

Yep.  Great planning to put your customers through the “Madness”.
MV





Service Book of Days 11/1/10

1 11 2010
  • Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)  is a bit on the chilly side.  today is the first day of November and the weather is signaling that it is time for the cold.  lots of cranky people at work today and i suspect the coming cold along with the winter depression is what is causing it.
  • my thoughts…are happy thoughts and pensive thoughts.  i am so totally psyched because in about 11 days I will be Master’s wife.  I wonder though if I am ready to be his wife. Our relationship dynamic of Master and slave is very important to us.  It is not just something that we do on the weekends.  I think I am probably worrying over nothing.  This new challenge, I am looking forward to.
  • Today’s Quote… The only thing in life you do in order is age…everything else is random… Me
  • i am thankful for…my family, my children, my Master…real love with all its ups, downs, and sideways facets.
  • From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) remembering that my life is as Master’s slave.   Just saying that makes me happy.  Being a slave to Master is so much more than just do this or go there.   It is life fulfilling.
  • From the kitchen…(menu for the week, what are you cooking?)  i am going to make a new recipe.  a pork loin with cranberry sauce.  nothing extensive but new for us.  also I want to plan some meals for when Master comes up here…THIS WEEKEND…YAY :) ))
  • i am wearing…my work out clothes.  Trying to get in as many night workouts as possible before the weather shuts me down…commuting wise.
  • i am creating…(crafts, sewing etc;) Nothing new at the moment
  • my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?) I am going to a munch with other slaves/submissives and then I get to go hang out and play at Paddles….woohooo.
  • Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?)  I was looking for something to read but I have decided to enter this contest instead…nanowrimo.org    Wish me luck…I am excited about the challenge though.
  • i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) My life in freedom
  • Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…) Spend my life with you by Eric Benet

My favorite lyrics in this song:

Can I just see you every morning when I open my eyes

Can I just feel your heart beating besides me every night

Can I just feel this way forever till the end of all time

Can I just spend my life with you.

  • One of my favorite things..is to get a really great workout in.  I love the challenge of pushing myself and reshaping my body.
  • further plans for this week…Cleaning the house thoroughly before Master gets here…lol
  • Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=264109

Used with permission via stock xchange license:  http://www.sxc.hu/info.phtml?f=help&s=8_2







You want me to do what?!?

25 10 2010

So early on in our relationship there were times when Master would ask me to do something or show me how something needs to be done and I took it as a personal afront.  I felt as if he was saying to me that I was incapable of making any worthwhile decisions and that I could not do anything on my own.

I had such a  knot inside of me that would constantly be added to every time he would tell me something.  There are times when I can be very passive aggressive.  I wouldn’t say if stuff would bother me, I would get snippy and expect him to read my mind.

So when he would ask me if everything was okay I would say, yes, and then get upset when he wouldn’t do what i thought he should do and probe further.  Make me answer him.  Make me tell him the truth about my feelings.

Yes, looking at it now I can see how unproductive for our relationship and how unfair it was to him.  A power exchange relationship such as what we have takes both of us.

So after make myself upset to the point where I was thinking seriously of leaving I had to sit myself down and get a grip.  Communication is everything.  I realized it wasn’t his telling me something it was my fear of being seen as incompetent.  It seems that I have been always trying to prove that I can do stuff.

I have learned that I don’t have to prove anything to Sir.   He doesn’t see me as less than.  He chose me because of who I am not in spite of it.

The best thing that has happened to me within this relationship is the amount of time I have had to get to know me.

MV’s esclave





Random Thoughts – Parenting and M/s

13 09 2010

Just some a random thought for tonight.

I realize that Master and I do very well managing our relationship with children involved.  Even managing to have playtime with the kids in the house.

We use quiet techniques.  Meaning that I am not allowed to make any noise no matter how much it hurts.  For me that is tough as I am not a quiet person.  I  like to moan and scream and make all sorts of noises.  No such thing with kids around.

For instance on Master’s last visit here we did some impact play.  I don’t mean light play.  Master was punching my breast really hard.  This was made much more intense as I couldn’t make a sound.  Of course this was after the kids were asleep and with the TV on.

Our relationship does not differ from that of any other relationship with children.   An M/s life can be lived with children and I believe lived without any extra finesse or hiding needed.

Just a short random thought.

Comments please feel free to add

MV’s esclave





History of Sex Dolls

20 08 2010

I wanted to do something lighter today, so I present you the info graphic history of the sex doll. Enjoy!!

Sex Dolls
Via: Medical Insurance

MV








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