Service Book of Days 12/14/11

14 12 2011

Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?)is the sound of small animals scurrying around.  I love sitting in front of the window during the day and seeing the birds in the front yard :)

my thoughts…are on making concrete changes

Today’s Quote:   

It’s really easy to complain. If you’re not careful, then you end up complaining about your whole life. Concentrating on the good things is really good. Catch people doing good.
Lisa Williams, Bloggers In Love, SXSW 2006

i am thankful for…heat…lol

From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) juicing and baking

i am wearing…a blankie

my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  nothing going on this weekend.  Christmas is almost here and we don’t even have a tree.

Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?) listening to an audio book on self exploration for women.  ”Women who run with wolves” by Clarissa Estes.  I have to say listening to this book has made me feel very energetic and light and filled with visions of dancing in the wild underneath the night sky until the morning sun.

i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week)

Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…)  That “Free Credit Report.com” song where the parent’s give the kid a credit card to start school.  I dislike this commercial very much…lol  The song ends by saying “hard times for Daddy and Mom” based on what the kids has done.  My thoughts are hard times for the kid to help repay what she spent by living at home and getting a job…lol

Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)  Photo used with permission from: Me :)

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Want to start something different.  Here are the direct

ions:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention the blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!  www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. :)


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Service Book of Days 12/6/11

6 12 2011

Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?) is a beautiful fall day.  The leaves have fallen and all of the bunnies are finding other spaces to hide in.  I love the colors and festiveness of this season.

my thoughts…are fluffy and warm and all calm and determined.

Today’s Quote:   

With every experience, you alone are painting your own canvas, thought by thought, choice by choice.
Oprah Winfrey, O Magazine US actress & television talk show host (1954 – )

i am thankful for…fresh fruits and vegetables.  I am starting this cleanse program for not only my body but those cobwebs and hang ups in my mind.

From my service training…(any skills, training etc; notes you want to share this week) learning to appreciate a clean cat box…sigh

i am wearing…Master’s bathrobe :)

my adventures this week…(where are you going this week?)  hmmm i think this weekend will be filled with munches and hanging with kinky friends.

Becoming well read…(What are you reading this week?) listening to an audio book on self exploration for women.  ”Women who run with wolves” by Clarissa Estes

i manifest and co-create…(what are your hopes, dreams, and prayers this week) silent negative inner voices

Today’s Melody…(what music are you listening to? even if it’s just the sound of a bird…)

Still….life(share a picture you’ve taken OR a picture you found online that speaks to you)  Photo used with permission from:

http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.5/

branches and sky

 

http://www.everystockphoto.com/photo.php?imageId=221881&searchId=45b8db8c564e04c80f032c96ba1d920d&npos=17

 

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Want to start something different.  Here are the direct

ions:

Once a week on Monday you will respond to the above prompts.. more is better. Post your response on your blog or website.

Mention the blog (service savoir faire) and offer a link back to the main page of the blog. This way others can participate in the project as well!  www.servicesavoirfaire.blogspot.com

So now that you know how, please feel free to join me. :)


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Let’s Talk About Sex (and BDSM)

3 12 2011

I’m seeing something today that I find interesting. More and more I am seeing new people into the scene looking for sex. Pain and Sex. Control and Sex. Spankings and Sex. Bondage and Sex. Very different from the world I came of age in.

When I started out, I was directed to improve myself. Learn control. Learn how to manipulate the flash of my partner. Bring agony and ecstasy to my partner. Sex would come to eventually, with the right person.And it would be great. Don’t limit your options by only playing with those you would fuck. Instead sample a wide variety. Try different skills. Learn. Grow. Be a better Dominant for your submissive, but play with those that were available so you can be better.

I think it is what made me a good Master for my esclave. We have sex, but our relationship is not based on sex. Sex is good, but Control is better. She knows her place. I know mine. We are both happier this way. And sex is better this way.

But there were a whole lot of people before her that I played with that allowed me to be who I am with her.And I appreciate them for the opportunity for growth they allowed me.

Some couldn’t imagine doing what they do without a sexual relationship. I can respect this, but I think they are missing out on a while lot Opportunities to learn and grow. How can you know if your partner will like something if you don’t take the time to become good at it? The first time may be so bad they never want to do it again, while a more experienced player can tell you what you are doing well.

Look at the acronym BDSM. Originally this meant Bondage and Discipline plus Sadism and Masochism. Later, Domination and Submission was added to round out the group. Bondage is tying someone up.Discipline means control and pain. Sadism is about inflicting pain, Masochism means receiving pain. Domination and Submission are about taking and giving up control.

Where is the Sex in that list? It isn’t there. And I think there is a reason for that.

Let me know what you think, in the comments.

MV


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