I like service, here is how to pack a suitcase Butler style. Part 2 after the break
More Service Stuff: How to Pack a Suitcase
31 07 2008Comments : Leave a Comment »
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Korean Tea Ceremony
30 07 2008We focus somewhat in the lifestyle on service. I thought I would share a video I found on the Korean Tea Ceremony. I find the Asian cultures particularly suited for the forms of BDSM I practice. Let me know what you think, in the comments.
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A Different Kind of Collarme Spam
28 07 2008I have said before that I have a profile on Collarme. Frankly, I never received a lot email there, but I like looking at the profiles and the beautiful women there so I keep coming back. So I was pleasantly surprised when I received an email from a Domme that I saw was near my girl. I initially thought, nice someone writing me to play with my girl. Frankly, I am ok with my girl playing with other women (and to some extent men) since she is so far away from me. Helps to scratch an itch of hers. And a happy slave means a happy Master.
I opened the letter and was amused when I found this:
It’s quite amusing that your “girls” must be height/weight proportionate, but it’s OK that you are OBESE (approximately 100 pounds overweight). You may want to take a moment to reflect on that….LOL
Well, once I stopped laughing I knew that given my personality, I could not let it rest. I know that I am a large man, and frankly overweight, but if I am dishonest in what I want I can never be happy. Neither could anyone that served me.
I wrote:
Yeah, I have. I am ok with me. I guess you are not ok with you since you feel compelled to impose your opinions upon me, unasked.
Have a nice day.
I do have to thank her though. I got a nice laugh (ask esclave) and I got a good post for my blog. I do feel sorry for those that have to deal with her in her day to day life. Someone with that kind of attitude cannot be happy at heart.
Be happy with who you are, be comfortable with what you want, and don’t be concerned with making everyone else happy.
MV
Oh, here is my profile if your interested.
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Free Pass
27 07 2008This post was requested by Sir. He requested that I share one of His policies of giving me a “free pass”.
Generally when i think of a free pass i think of something that allows you to get a no payments, no repercussions pass that you can use for a limited time there are also some that are good until you use them and you can use them anytime you want. The latter is the type of free pass that Sir has given to me. I got this pass from Sir as a reward for my good behavior his way of saying “good girl”.
I can use my free pass for any play or task that i don’t want to do at the moment. My dynamic with Sir is that basically he is in charge. It is at his discretion and direction that things happen in O/our space and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I can use my free pass anytime I want but Sir reserves the right to, for a very good reason, take it away. There is nothing that I can do per se to win another pass. Meaning that I can not do a certain number of things and then expect to recieve a free pass and I cannot accumulate free passes.
That being said I still have only one pass that I have yet to use…LOL besides the things Sir has had me do have not been anything that I wanted to take a pass on.
mvs
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Pole Dancing in China as Exercise
26 07 2008While I have heard of using erotic dancing similar to what one finds in a strip club as a form of aerobic exercise, it seems that the Chinese have improved on the concept. They have stepped up to pole dancing. Personally, I think that if it is done properly, pole dancing is one of the most erotic, sensual and beautiful things I have ever seen. Some of those girls have done some amazing things. I will link a picture and a location to buy your own pole after the break.
Clad in knee-high leather boots, spandex shorts and a sports bra, Xiao Yan struck a pose two feet off the ground, her head glistening with sweat and her arms straining as she suspended herself from a vertical pole.
“Keeping your grip is the hardest part,” she said. “It’s really easy to slide downward.”
A nightclub activity mostly considered the domain of strippers in the United States, pole dancing — but with clothes kept on — is nudging its way into the mainstream Chinese exercise market, with increasing numbers of gyms and dance schools offering classes.
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Post on CNN on How to Stimulate a Womans Sex Life
25 07 2008Personally, I take a great interest in the healthy sex life of women. The reason is pretty simple: Self Interest. I love women, and I love enjoying sex with women (albeit with a twist). So I was pleased to find this article on CNN on 5 ways that a woman can improve her sex life. Though the foci of the article is on sexual dysfunction, I think that anybody would enjoy reading this. Enjoy.
Anti-stress herbs
You don’t have to be Dr. Ruth to know that when you’re under stress, you’re not in the mood for love. “Stress levels will affect a woman’s libido. We’re more sensitive to stress than our male counterparts,” says Dr. Esther Konigsberg, medical director of the Family Practice Center of Integrative Health and Healing in Burlington, Ontario.
Konigsberg often suggests these anti-stress herbs to her patients with sexual problems: ashwagandha, astragalus, panax ginseng. Licorice can also be used for stress, but she says your physician must monitor your potassium levels.
I may need to take a trip to GNC… lol. Let me know what you think in the comments.
MV
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