I apologize

30 03 2008

Okay it is taking me way too long to write this due to the fact that I am doing my usual beat around the bush to avoid the issue or justify my actions in some way.    As Sir tells me sooner is better than later.Sir I need to apologize to you.

I have asked so much of you and have tested your love, care and dedication for not only me but my children to the point where today I almost put an end to us. Unthinkingly I asked you to accept just one more condition in our relationship. Still trying to control this relationship and forgetting the operative words…O/our relationship. It is not about me, I am not the only one giving up or adjusting their life for this relationship. From the moment we met I trusted you and felt safe with you.

Sir what can I do but beg your forgiveness. I beg your forgiveness for treating your feelings as if they didn’t matter. For totally taking your for granted and for thinking that whatever I wanted would be acceptable. This is not the relationship I want to have with you. I look for you to be my Master not on my terms but what is best for U/us and O/our relationship.

I love you Sir…I love you very very much.  You are a good thing in my life.  Someone I wish to be with for a long time.

Please forgive me for hurting you or for causing you any type of distress.


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Categories : General

Vegan Strippers?

30 03 2008

I was perusing the web the other day and I ran across this story about a vegan strip club. Anyone who knows me, knows I appreciate a beautiful nude woman, so I read some more.

TWO things that you can find a lot of in Portland, Ore., are vegans and strip clubs. Johnny Diablo decided to open a business to combine both. At his Casa Diablo Gentlemen’s Club, soy protein replaces beef in the tacos and chimichangas; the dancers wear pleather, not leather. Many are vegans or vegetarians themselves.

But Portland is also home to a lot of young feminists, and some are not happy with Mr. Diablo’s venture. Since he opened the strip club last month, their complaints have been “all over the Internet,” he said. “One of them came in here once. I could tell she had an attitude right when she came in. She was all hostile.”

However, it appears that the club isn’t doing too well. If your a vegan and want to get your freak on, you had better hurry.

Last week Mr. Diablo put the club up for sale, although not because of the criticism, he said. He may have overestimated the appeal of stripping to vegans, or of vegan cuisine to striptease fans; an earlier vegan restaurant he ran was poorly received.

It appears that the whole idea of a strip club focusing on veganism is quite controversial and many vegans are offended by it. Others find sex a good way to target men to convert to their ways. Personally I am glad that I found a woman who eats healthily, but still enjoys a good steak.

Anyway I hope you enjoy this story as much as I have.

MV


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A modern day fembot?

29 03 2008

A TSA agent told a woman she would have to remove her nipple rings if she wanted to pass the security checkpoint. The woman has retained Gloria Allred as her attorney.

A woman was forced by the Transportation Security Administration to remove her nipple rings before she was allowed to board a flight, an attorney said on Thursday.”The woman was given a pair of pliers in order to remove the rings in her nipples,” said Los Angeles attorney Gloria Allred. “The rings had been in her nipples for many years.”



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Operation: Do Something

28 03 2008

dosomething

A fellow Dominant I respect came up with an idea, and I thought I would join in. His words are better than anything I could write, so here they are:

Ok I ‘m pitching this one out to everyone that considers themselves a part of the Community. I’ve been looking at various posts, blogs and opinions and most of it is at the core complaining. Now venting can be theraputic but in the end sometimes a situation calls for actions.

Now I am not talking about anything grand actions on anyone’s part but what if each one of us did something, just something that uplifts or empowers the community. It can be attending a munch, actually being there to listen to someone, give someone pure advice, support a dungeon, reach out to one new person, let go of a grudge, anything pure of heart. Don’t do it to be seen, just do it because there was a need for it to be done. Do something and not take credit for it. Do something nice anonymously for someone. Just invest some pure goodwill.

I’m calling this Operation: Do Something, and if you believe in what I’m saying please use the graphic above and spread the word.

This community needs you, time to make it yours.

Darque

Ok, now you know what to do. Do it.

MV


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Reflections on a Conference.

26 03 2008

I thought I would reflect upon the conference I attended last night.  I suppose I am a tad bit jaded by voice chats these days. It turns out that the conference was a typing only event.  I thought the author was fine, but the host was using evaluation software, and everyone had to keep putting in text to keep in the room.  I found that distracting as was the use of a wide variety of fonts and colors.  I have to say that all of that made it very distracting for some one with ADD. I will say that the author they interviewed was interesting, but after an hour or so of the chat room.  They are supposed to be posing the chat logs, so maybe I will scan that later and be able to weed out the extraneous parts.

Now I have a goal, find some online chat software that focuses on voice, and that isn’t too annoying to use. If you have some suggestions, please post them in the comments.

MV 


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Categories : BDSM, General, Reviews

The BDSM Resource Center

25 03 2008

I am going to be attending an online conference tonight at the BDSM Resource Center. Tonights focus is on the matter of protocols, a particular fetish of mine. They have a lot of resources for those interested in the lifestyle and links to books and movies that you might find interesting.  I am looking forward to the evenings events, and I promise to let you know what I thought of it.

MV


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